Girlfriends not happy anymore

[DevonT]

So basically heres the deal, my gf and I have been dating for 10 months now, we'd talked about living together for sometime and had planned to move in together at my apartment, however life happened and that didnt pan out. So we pretty well forced the situation and we are now living together in her mom and her moms boyfriends house. now im not a snob and nor is my g/f but this place is a dump and its totally depressing to be here. And i know that this is why my g/f isnt happy. we use to be one of those disgusting couples that would kiss and flirt in public and we used to be soo happy it was the best time ever. but now this place is just draining us and i dont know what to do. shes thinking about what she needs to change in her life to make her happy again, and i dont want to be that thing, so what can i do to prove to her that im something that can make her happy, not unhappy, i jjust need some general advice here, any is appreciated, thnx

[eightball61]

Right now we're all living in a tough world and no matter what change she decides to make she may not be making to much of a change as she would have to start over. As for the the relationship, this does takea lot of strain because I too am there but you both can overcome it together by talking and trying not to give up on what was lost. Some things will get lost but try you both need to try together. Life will through you both through many obsticles as you both grow and depending on how you both react is telling how this relationship will lasts.

[Rhawn]

How about making plans to move out of there? You and her can get a savings account and just put a dollar a day in it until you have enough money saved up that you can go live somewhere else for some time.

Just get her to be excited about a goal and a future. You might have to live at the dump today but if you work at it you don't have to live there tomorrow.