Caecaecae
08-21-2009, 09:27 PM
When me and my fiancee got together she stopped seeing her Ex.
Two years later she admits that she still has feelings for him. She wants to go to his house for parties, and stay there as late as she wants without me getting upset. She's kissed him recently, but says she does not think she was cheating on me and I forgave her. She gets upset saying I don't give her enough space in the relationship every time I question her about her relationships with other men.
Last time she was at a party at his house she was alone in his room with him. Where he asked her to kiss him. She said nothing happened, but lied to me about being alone in his room.
She says she wants to be with me but still be able to date other people. But not have to sleep with them, and have other boyfriends, but still be able to come to bed with me every night.
She often gets angry, yells, and hits me, I never hit her back. She accuses me of trying to help her sort out her life to much, and compares me to her Ex. She has pages and pages of poetry about her ex (which i'm not meant to have read) where she says how much she longs for him, and wants to have with him, and how all the most important gifts she's brought me she was hoping she could buy for him.
She has stopped wearing her engagement ring, and only puts it on now when she doesn't want people to ask questions.
What's everyones opinion on the situation? SHould I give her more space, leave her?
Two years later she admits that she still has feelings for him. She wants to go to his house for parties, and stay there as late as she wants without me getting upset. She's kissed him recently, but says she does not think she was cheating on me and I forgave her. She gets upset saying I don't give her enough space in the relationship every time I question her about her relationships with other men.
Last time she was at a party at his house she was alone in his room with him. Where he asked her to kiss him. She said nothing happened, but lied to me about being alone in his room.
She says she wants to be with me but still be able to date other people. But not have to sleep with them, and have other boyfriends, but still be able to come to bed with me every night.
She often gets angry, yells, and hits me, I never hit her back. She accuses me of trying to help her sort out her life to much, and compares me to her Ex. She has pages and pages of poetry about her ex (which i'm not meant to have read) where she says how much she longs for him, and wants to have with him, and how all the most important gifts she's brought me she was hoping she could buy for him.
She has stopped wearing her engagement ring, and only puts it on now when she doesn't want people to ask questions.
What's everyones opinion on the situation? SHould I give her more space, leave her?