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jastav1
03-12-2005, 07:48 AM
If there was a chick you've just met and she thinks your cute but shes not attracted to you in a boyfriend sense but she wanted to be friends would you still hangout out with her?Take in to account she lives 2 apartments from you in the same complex and you like her heaps,but shes going overseas for a year in a few months but will be coming back!sometimes its hard when it hasnt really hit you yet wondering if anyone else has been in this position and what did they do.thanks!
eightball61
03-13-2005, 03:23 PM
You do what you think is right but I would maybe try being a friend for now and maybe see what the future brings.
smackie9
03-13-2005, 07:31 PM
Don't keep your hopes up too high. Let's just be friends thing blows! Go and find someone who is instantly attracted to you. Waiting around for her to change her mind is a waste of time. Remember, you are #1, you deserve better.
Chris0305
03-14-2005, 01:32 PM
I've found that the best idea in this situation is to do as most have already said, find someone that IS attracted to you. The Just-Friends thing is more complicated if you keep trying to date the girl and trust me, you'll just end up confusing both of you. Be this girls friend if you'd like, but find someone better suited for you. Sometimes we want things so bad we overdo it, trust me, I know.
Rich
03-14-2005, 02:50 PM
There can be two schools of thought on this.

If there's no spark from you to her, then she's right and you have no shot.

On the other hand you can become friends and hopefully over time you can evolve into something that she wants.

If you want a friend, friend right now, then go for it. If not, then don't.

Something else to consider though. Girls have girl friends. If you become friends with this girl, then chances are that you might have opportunities to meet some of her friends. Free pickings, dude.

Rich
CalistaClap
03-14-2005, 07:01 PM
If she isn't into you in a romantic way, and you are, then it's probably best to stay away.

If both of you are just looking for friendship, then go for it. How convient to have someone to hang out with that close by.