rb4187
09-09-2009, 09:21 PM
My ex girlfriend ended our relationship of more than 2.5 years a few weeks ago. It is completely my fault.
I have been under an incredible financial strain and have been a terrible and distant partner for the last 10 months. I just never let my walls down to let her know how I was feeling. She said she is confused, but has pretty quickly started seeing someone. I have talked to her right after the break up, but am now going no contact after our last contact went really poorly. I love her dearly. I am now on my way to financial stability and being able to relax and love her like she needs to be loved.
I want her to be happy, which it sounds like she is. So, I am going to give her her space and as much time as she needs. I will date other people, as will she. But, at some point, I would love to get back in touch and see if the feelings between us are still there. How long would you wait? A month? Two or three, or more?
I have been under an incredible financial strain and have been a terrible and distant partner for the last 10 months. I just never let my walls down to let her know how I was feeling. She said she is confused, but has pretty quickly started seeing someone. I have talked to her right after the break up, but am now going no contact after our last contact went really poorly. I love her dearly. I am now on my way to financial stability and being able to relax and love her like she needs to be loved.
I want her to be happy, which it sounds like she is. So, I am going to give her her space and as much time as she needs. I will date other people, as will she. But, at some point, I would love to get back in touch and see if the feelings between us are still there. How long would you wait? A month? Two or three, or more?