Pass some spice please...

[Beachykeen]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We are both 21, and have been ual for just over 2 years. Our life can be exciting, but it can also get dull. Short and simple, I was just wondering if anyone has any good advice in order to add "some spice" into the relationship. (Be warned, please don't suggest role-playing, or threesome, cause that's a little over the line for me...)thanks! :confused:

[eightball61]

(Be warned, please don't suggest role-playing, or threesome, cause that's a little over the line for me...)thanks! :confused:



Then what is there to suggest? I wouldn't suggest a threesome because that can setup for many longterm disasters. Overall, you just have to be creative. You already express that your life is exciting and you should keep up what you both have been doing in the past to keep things exciting. You can spice things up but you have to just be creative on what you both want. Role-playing is not a bad idea but you both have to be into it or it doesn't work out that well.

You want to have more thoughts about but what is it that is lacking currently? or what is it what you want?

There are books and stuff on these subjects and you can check them out at a local book store. The other thing to maybe try is watching with you man to sprucing things up some.

[Rich]

Being that you're both only 21 and maybe don't have your own place to go to for , it makes it kind of difficult. Maybe you're not a free to try things.

But, if given the opportunity, you can:

Bring food products into play. Sauces and syrup are nice for dripping onto body parts and then licking off. Using ice cubes during oral can be fun. Whipped cream is nice also. As mentioned in a previous post, I love my chocolate covered nipples.

What about toys? Have you guys added toys to your bedroom adventures yet. s, s, beads, blindfolds and handcuffs are all fun. I won't go into the usage of all of those here as I'm sure that you can use your imagination on that.

What I will say though is that to tie your partner up or handcuff them to the bed blindfolded, is pretty exciting. And then teasing them into a state of heightened ual arousal, is pretty intense. You can get them hot, make them beg for things and have them talk in whichever way turns you on.

If one partner isn't much into being audible, then this is a good way to get them out of that shell. If my partner doesn't talk or audiblize much and I happen to like that, then when i have them all hot and ready, I make them talk dirty and scream out what they want me to do to them.

Again, being in your own apartment or house helps. A hotel room is ok, too.

Then you also have the idea of having in other places other then the bedroom, which is cool. And I'm not talking about just in other rooms. Get out of the house. If you have a balcony, do it on that. Wear a robe and have your boyfriend (also wearing a robe) come and do you from behind while on the balcony. Do this at night first, then during the day.

Oral while he's driving is an experience, but your boyfriend needs to be careful. Do it in an elevator, alleyway, or the coat closet at a function that you're invited to.

Lastly, pick up a Kama Sutra book and work your way through all of the positions.

Hope some of this helps or gives you ideas.

Rich
www.awesomerelationships.com