Advice needed

[jastav1]

This is in response to my earlier post.Is it best to avoid contacting eg.texting,seeing a girl who you like and she doesnt feel the same way bout you?Because its to hard when I'm with her to just be friends but I still want her in my life, as I think bout her constantly.She lives in the same apartment block which doesnt help so I guess I'm asking is if i cease all contact with her will it change things or will it end everything?I'm not use to this strategy so advice from anyone would be much appreciated as its getting hard shes very busy but there are times we can both hang out etc she told me where I stand I just hope she'll change her mind in the future!Thanks for the help.

[eightball61]

This thread is just like your last post but worded differently. My Comment in the last post is:

"You do what you think is right but I would maybe try being a friend for now and maybe see what the future brings."


& still stands as that. Maybe you just dont know what to do but whats the point of ignoring somone when you want them more as a friend. Her mind may change in the future....My advice still stands as just be a friend but still move on with your life just incase nothing ever did happen between you both.

[jastav1]

Thanks for the advice.It's just hard because she lives next door for a few more weeks then in a few months shes off overseas for awhile.She only responds when i text her and since she told me last week that she isnt attracted to me in a boyfriend sense things are different we dont hang out or hardly ever talk and it gets me down because i still like her heaps and dont want to lose her in my life i've told her this in a text but she hasnt mentioned how she feels about it.

[eightball61]

she told me last week that she isnt attracted to me in a boyfriend sense things are different .


Things will be different and with her qoute from last week you will have to learn just to accept the fact that you can't always have what you want. Sure you see her and you as a match but she doesn't. She runs a very busy life and even if you both dated it would be hard because she goes away a lot. You mind will begin to accept her decision over time but time is what its going to take.