I dont know which is the right thing to do. HELP PLEASE

[skinny]

My boyfriend of 2yrs, have had many many problems. He told me he was going to sleep with another woman (that has caused plenty of issues between me and him) for the 2nd time and i decided enough was enough. the thing is, this happened the night before he was going into surgery to have a cancer lump removed from his neck. I found out from his sister that everything went good. I'm not sure if i should continue checking up on him or not. I do care about him, but i dont want him to get mixed signals if i call him. I dont want to say i love you and have him thinking that we are all good (cuz that is normally how our fights / break ups go, we never really call it quits), because i am truly fed up now. Any advice?

[PrincessB]

DON'T DO IT!!! You don't want to open Pandora's box or give him the wrong idea.

I'm speaking from experience. I absolutely loathe my ex but he has health issues and I'm not a total heartless pig. I have concerns about his health and well being but I'm not interested in the drama or giving him the satisfaction in knowing that I even care he's alive.

The only reason I even care to know is because everyone else in his life is over his behavior including his own parents and I pity him.