don't know what to do.....?

[pharm4u]

Hope someone will be able to advise me....
I have been going through a patch of very rough waters for the past year. I recently lost my dear father, got divorced,dumped by boyfriend, got laid off from pharmacy position, dealt with mother's health, ie. suffered a stroke. I believe that I have experienced my share of negativity to last an entire lifetime. I am presently seeing my former husband, but I know & feel in my heart that I still love the fomer person whom I was dating for about 2 and a half years. He broke off the relationship he claims because he got tired of waiting for me to get divorced. We broke up in May/04, I got my final divorce in August/04....I am having a very difficult time understanding why he could not wait a few months??? He promised me many things, such as a family of which we both wanted. I have given much thought to writing him a letter or calling him, I feel if I don't do something to see if anything can be reconciled, I may regret it, or never forgive myself. To make matters more complicated, this person was a former friend of my ex-husband. This has caused much friction within both families. Please advise me...
So-confused in canada :confused:

[eightball61]

I am sure its all tough.....My GF once said "when it all hits rock bottom then things will get better because thats the lowest it can hit"......She is right though and maybe you need just some guidence to get back on track. I can't tell you who to love or to be with because you mind and heart will guide you that direction. What I can do is offer advise like couseling to have someone close to you that you can talk to about all these problems. A counselor will be able to give you many helpful ways to get ahead of yourself and back on track. You have many issues here that even one from here may have a hard time trying to help you out with.

I wish I had more to offer but thats all I had...please seek some help for guidence and keep us posted :D

[Rich]

Follow your heart and write the letter. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

It can't hurt and hopefully it can answer those nagging doubts in your head.

Go for it.

Rich