Long distance, is she cheating?

[Josh1323]

My gf and I will have been dating for 3 years on wednesday. We both just recently went to college and are about 200 miles apart. I've usually been pretty trusting of her but lately i've had my doubts. the other night I called her and asked what she was doing and she said she was going out with her friend. The next day after persistant question I found out she was with two other guys, when she had said it was just her and her friend. I shrugged it off but today I saw pictures posted of her with her and friend and two other guys and she was very close to the guy in several pictures. when i asked her she ignored it at first, then started to question me, and finally got mad at me.

I've always known she is a very good liar, excepional atualy, her parents never beleive her when shes telling the truth because of it.
I just have never looked into whether she lies to me, maybe because i'm to afraid of what i'd find.

Also I hope this is not innopropriate but i feel it plays a role.
we have been ually active for years and are both very familar with it. Often if we would do it too frequently or have a gap in between frequent sessions she would be sore, which is understandable. However after I moved away I would visit her on the weekend sometimes and she would be sore during the first time even after foreplay and sometimes lubrication. That concerns me as well :/


Am I paranoid or crazy?

[PrincessB]

My gf and I will have been dating for 3 years on wednesday. We both just recently went to college and are about 200 miles apart. I've usually been pretty trusting of her but lately i've had my doubts. the other night I called her and asked what she was doing and she said she was going out with her friend. The next day after persistant question I found out she was with two other guys, when she had said it was just her and her friend. I shrugged it off but today I saw pictures posted of her with her and friend and two other guys and she was very close to the guy in several pictures. when i asked her she ignored it at first, then started to question me, and finally got mad at me.

I've always known she is a very good liar, excepional atualy, her parents never beleive her when shes telling the truth because of it.
I just have never looked into whether she lies to me, maybe because i'm to afraid of what i'd find.

Also I hope this is not innopropriate but i feel it plays a role.
we have been ually active for years and are both very familar with it. Often if we would do it too frequently or have a gap in between frequent sessions she would be sore, which is understandable. However after I moved away I would visit her on the weekend sometimes and she would be sore during the first time even after foreplay and sometimes lubrication. That concerns me as well :/


Am I paranoid or crazy?

No. Most relationships like yours end within the first year of college. You do not trust her for a reason...She is a liar. It is hard to let go of a ltr because it is so familiar. There is life after first love. Do you not deserve an honest and honorable woman?

[eightball61]

No. Most relationships like yours end within the first year of college. You do not trust her for a reason...She is a liar. It is hard to let go of a ltr because it is so familiar. There is life after first love. Do you not deserve an honest and honorable woman?

Agreed !

[shylab]

When her parents don't trust her, you should have been catious fromt the beginning. Well, give some breating space to your relation, not immediately but slowly reduce your calling and visiting frequency to her and you will know wether your relation with her is to last or fade away. I would say start your life allover again minus her and see the difference. You might be more happier person