Feeling alone

[Desolate]

Not sure if I am going crazy or not but for the last sseveral months my fiance and I have not been intimate. We do have alot going on in our lives with our children and all but that should be no excuse. I feel that he isn't interested in me anymore..he even gets pic mail from some friends of women and he even keeps them on his phone. OMG the list goes on and I really don't know where to begin. I love him to death but he knows how I get insecure about myself and he still has them on his phone. he says "I forward them to some of my other friends so that's why they are still there." I have even deleted them at times. I don't like to go thru his phone but I'm trying hard to figure out why we are sooo distant from each other. I used to be ALL over me.. I don't know..maybe there really is something wrong with me..not attractive or something. I give up sometimes.

[smackie9]

There's a possibility he is having an affair, Internet affair, or emotional affair with someone. People get bored or feel trapped in a relationship and seek excitement outside of the relationship. Set your fear aside and ask him seriously how he feels about your relationship. Ask him if he wants out or does he want to improve it. Go from there.

[jidekanluv]

You have to take things ease at this pointof the relationship. lay down your fears, it does not worth it when you love someone and you are not loved back the same way.
You take it to him, ask him what he is up to, tell him what you think and you want from the relationship and ask him wtah he wants from the relationship.

You dont have to live in sadness, sorrow and fear(insecurity) because of loving someone. Love is meant to be enjoyed