BigDave
03-22-2005, 07:30 AM
i NEED HELP!
Im a freshman in college, graduated from a small high school last year. While in high school i became romanticly involved for a day or two with this girl Ali. It honestly didnt last long, and it was the result of months of flirting and leading her on. It seriously lasts 2 days. After that, i dont talk to her until 2 months into my freshman year in college. She still goes to high school as a senior. I began to feel bad about how i led her on for so long, then didnt pursue a real relationship. I apologize. We go another month without talking, until one day she calls me up crying. I console her, make her feel better and all that, then get back to my own life. That month i got 4 or 5 more of those calls. I thought she just needed a friendly ear, so i was there for her as a friend. I go home for winter break, and she wants to see me, so she invites my over to watch a movie with some friends of hers. Alas- i arrive to find her in her room, nobody else in the house. Her being such an attractive young girl, it took a hell of a lot to leave that night still...pure, but i managed. The next day an old buddy calls me up and says 'hey i heard you hooked up with ali last night.' Crap. The rumors began, and i had to shoot every one of them down. I called up Ali and kindly asked her to stop, and she agreed. But of course they didnt stop. Still havnt stopped. She begins calling more and more, and i am forced to tell her that i dont want any relationship with her. I must have told her twice a week for a solid month before i just started ignoring her calls. Eventually my sister calls me up and tells me that she heard Ali was diagnosed with cancer. As much as she annoyed me, i was worried. I went to see her, a 3 hour drive, only to have a long chat with her mother. She was fine- no cancer. She told my sister that to get me to come visit her. I bolted. Since then i havnt talked to her- i never answer the phone when its her. I figured if i ignored her shed go away. Its been 3 months and she hasnt let down one bit. Last week alone she called my 47 times. 47- not even an exaggeration. Its driving me mad! And the rumors- they havnt stopped either. My sister is in Ali's graduating class, so she hears them all. She even heard that i proposed to Ali over the phone. This is madness! how do i stop it all??
Im a freshman in college, graduated from a small high school last year. While in high school i became romanticly involved for a day or two with this girl Ali. It honestly didnt last long, and it was the result of months of flirting and leading her on. It seriously lasts 2 days. After that, i dont talk to her until 2 months into my freshman year in college. She still goes to high school as a senior. I began to feel bad about how i led her on for so long, then didnt pursue a real relationship. I apologize. We go another month without talking, until one day she calls me up crying. I console her, make her feel better and all that, then get back to my own life. That month i got 4 or 5 more of those calls. I thought she just needed a friendly ear, so i was there for her as a friend. I go home for winter break, and she wants to see me, so she invites my over to watch a movie with some friends of hers. Alas- i arrive to find her in her room, nobody else in the house. Her being such an attractive young girl, it took a hell of a lot to leave that night still...pure, but i managed. The next day an old buddy calls me up and says 'hey i heard you hooked up with ali last night.' Crap. The rumors began, and i had to shoot every one of them down. I called up Ali and kindly asked her to stop, and she agreed. But of course they didnt stop. Still havnt stopped. She begins calling more and more, and i am forced to tell her that i dont want any relationship with her. I must have told her twice a week for a solid month before i just started ignoring her calls. Eventually my sister calls me up and tells me that she heard Ali was diagnosed with cancer. As much as she annoyed me, i was worried. I went to see her, a 3 hour drive, only to have a long chat with her mother. She was fine- no cancer. She told my sister that to get me to come visit her. I bolted. Since then i havnt talked to her- i never answer the phone when its her. I figured if i ignored her shed go away. Its been 3 months and she hasnt let down one bit. Last week alone she called my 47 times. 47- not even an exaggeration. Its driving me mad! And the rumors- they havnt stopped either. My sister is in Ali's graduating class, so she hears them all. She even heard that i proposed to Ali over the phone. This is madness! how do i stop it all??