need woman's advice- Physical Advancement of my relationship!

[BigDave]

Hey all- I appreciate any advice you could give me on this one. I started dating this girl back in August of 2004, well sorta, because she lives 900 miles away from me. Since i saw her in august and we first kissed, I've only seen her 7 or 8 times. This relationship, however, has been in the works for years, and i know more than anything that im in love with her, and one day i will marry her. Anyway, shes home for a couple of weeks. Last night we were making out in the car, it was getting pretty heavy. Now i love this girl, but it also happens that i have never been more physically attracted to someone. Shes smokin! I didnt want to go too far last night. I mean, i did, because i wanted to please her and get closer to her, but im having trouble reading her actions. For instance, there was a period where she moved my hands up and down her sides, and she was kind of sticking her chest out- but i couldnt decide whether or not she wanted me to feel her breasts. Im terrified to just do it- because i dont want to risk looking like im only in it for the , (which we havnt even had yet.) Women- how do i know when to take these little steps? :confused:

[Rich]

Sometime has to be the first time. Why wait?

I think she gave you the sign to advance. Moving your hands up and down is a sign. Just try things and if she takes your hand away or says no, then stop. But at least try.

I take it that she probably knows that you're not in it just for the if you've been waiting for her while living so far away.

Go for it.

Rich

[smackie9]

Oh ya! It's time to make a move. Just remember she's just as nervous as you are. If she says no or stop, then stop. That's it. No biggy. Try and talk about it to her. Let her know you care. Now go for it!

[eightball61]

I agree with the above post...go for it :D

[inquisitive]

I'm a woman, and I agree she's given you the signs :)

If you're afraid of upsetting her go slowly towards your destination :D but definitely go for it! So if you want to touch her breasts, and she's moving your hands up and down her sides then move your hand to her breasts! If she wanted you to stop she'd tell you!

[Rich]

I take it that since we have not heard back that maybe his hands are too busy to type. LOL

[eightball61]

You gotta love the cyber world Rich :D but if he likes to type so much then maybe he can type here for an update :p

[Rich]

If I had my choice I'd rather be getting lucky then typing here on this forum. LOL

[eightball61]

If I had my choice I'd rather be getting lucky then typing here on this forum. LOL


Then why are you here Rich ??? :p

[Rich]

Because I'm working and my secratary is out to lunch. LOL

Just kidding.

Notice you don't see me posting at night when I'm home. My wife and I don't have 8 kids because I'm on the computer. :D

And now that i'm fixed....I'm just playing with house money. No muss, no fuss. LOL

[eightball61]

Because I'm working and my secratary is out to lunch. LOL





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so does your secratary like your oval office?lol