Need Help.. LOST :-(

[pawonder]

Okay..Ive been in a relationship for about 5 years now, engaged for about a year or so. 4 years ago we parted ways for a couple of months and dated other people. This person I've dated lived around the area until a year ago, so we could ocasionally see each other, well for some reason I cannot get this person out of my mind. I havent seen her in 2 year, yet i dream of this person on a regular basis. In the time we dated, i was the happiest Ive ever been. The relationship was perfect..they were perfect and all i can ever think about is this person. This person has been in a relationship for about the past year..... I dont know what to do.. I love my fiance...very much.... but I think my soul mate lies elswhere... Do i tell this other person how i feel? Do i keep it a secret? Do i tell my fiance? Please help... SOO lost..... :-(

[Rich]

You get married because you feel that you found THE right person that you want to spend the rest of your life with and to give of your heart fully and totally.

YOUR heart is not totally into your fiance or marriage, so don't do it.

Follow your heart.

[PrincessB]

Why did you break up with the object of your dreams? Probably for a reason. Sounds like either you have cold feet or you're not that into your current fiancee.

[Ashkayi]

Sometimes people really dont know what they have until they lose it. Sometimes people never really see what they have and never understand it. People get married everyday for the wrong reasons. You have to decide for yourself what is the best thing for you. If you are the least bit uneasy about getting married, don't. It will never work out and you will only end up ruining both her life, and yours.