I'm lost her me out. Advice needed. Please.

[HeartbrokenML]

Okay my girlfriend for one and a half months broke up with me. I really liked her. She had a lot of stress in her life including me. She never got to see me really so she was stressed about that and a lot. So she broke up with me. She was crying and didn't want to do it but she did. I'm heartbroken and I don't know what to do. She says she's really sorry and wad crying and doesn't want it to end but it had to. I don't recall making any mistakes but I'll see her tommorow morning so I really don't know what to say. There is a possibility she will take me back when she's feeling better. Please help me out.

[smackie9]

So how did it go? Was it worth all the worry?

[Sarah1980]

Ive read this book online rescently that i found quite interesting, it didn't pertain to me and my husband Paul's relationship, but i found i found it had great techniques for getting an "Ex" back. I'll try to put a link in here if it works, if it doesn't work and you're really interested, let me know. Keep your head up!
Link to book:
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Hope this helps!

[eightball61]

Only time will tell. You both sound pretty young and the relationship and stress was not worth it to her.

[zanshin2005]

Okay my girlfriend for one and a half months broke up with me. I really liked her. She had a lot of stress in her life including me. She never got to see me really so she was stressed about that and a lot. So she broke up with me. She was crying and didn't want to do it but she did. I'm heartbroken and I don't know what to do. She says she's really sorry and wad crying and doesn't want it to end but it had to. I don't recall making any mistakes but I'll see her tommorow morning so I really don't know what to say. There is a possibility she will take me back when she's feeling better. Please help me out.

I feel for your Heartbreak man, I do. Its a hard thing to go through.

You have to LET HER DO WHAT SHE HAS TO DO... No way around this. Don't be pushy, don't call her all the time and certainly don't beg her to try and change her mind. It doesn't work!

Leave her be. If she wants to contact you, then she will. But like I said in another post, don't let emotion and irrationality guide you two. You need some time to deal with this initial "shock" of the break up. Focus on you, not her for now. If she wants you in her life that way, she will tell you. Don't be her friend right now either, in time, sure... but your emotions are haywire and will guide you both into a brickwall. That's not fair to either of you.

A month and Half seems like a strong infatuation point, but not enough time to develop the proper foundations for a relationship. Was she your first time girlfriend? Just take things a little more mellow the next time, and try not to get to attached right away.

Its hard I know, but just move on your own for a bit. One day at a time. You will get there :)

[Valentine]

I agree with zanshin2005.

Any woman will want to recover something that she never lost.

You might say her "It's ok dear, perhaps when you want to get back I'll be here (If I'm still available)"

After saying that, walk away