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browneyedgirl03
02-28-2004, 02:26 PM
okay here goes: A couple of days ago, i met this guy where i work. He doesn't work with me, he was just in my office for the day to do some stuff. Anyways, we hit it off really well and i ended up giving him my number. So he called me the next day just to say hi and he told me he would call me later on in the week, so we could hang out. Enough background, i'll get to my problem. I found out through one of the guys at work, this guy is 24. That isn't a problem for me, since i usually date older guys...but i'm wondering if me being 18 will be a problem for him. So guys, is it a big deal when yall date younger girls? or does it depend? Please respond! i'd really appreciate it!;)

Ricksta
02-29-2004, 01:45 AM
It basically depends on the person. I mean how I feel about it is totally different from how he feels so the only solution is for you to ask him directly because like in every relationship, whether it is in the beginning stages or not, honest communication should always be the basis.

browneyedgirl03
02-29-2004, 03:20 PM
thanks rick, i agree. I am definitely going to tell him how old i am. And you are right, it does depend on the guy. If my age is a problem, then obviously it isn't meant to be.

Ricksta
02-29-2004, 11:27 PM
The pleasure is mine. Just remember that it is vital for you to be yourself no matter what without compromising anything because to love a woman is to love her in the heart and nowhere else and that is exactly how he should feel about you, all right?

browneyedgirl03
03-01-2004, 01:28 AM
yes, i will definitely be myself...like i always am. I mean obviously there was something about me that sparked his interest, otherwise he wouldn't have wanted my number and have wanted to go out with me. i'll keep ya updated though! i really appreciate your responses:)

Ricksta
03-01-2004, 02:08 AM
No problem. It is a pleasure, and good for you for a being such a strong young woman with such an incredible sense of individuality and just for that I can honestly say that this fellow is lucky to have you in his life. I really appreciate your attitude in life, so you know. :)

spclagent7
06-04-2004, 03:56 AM
My humble opinion: Don't say anything until he asks.
Let us know how it goes.