Want her back more than anything

[Want her back A]

I have just split up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. We had been going out for 6 months. I really miss her so much! The reason we split up was because we were both becoming really paranoid. I was paranoid at first because I was afraid of losing her. She picked that up and so she started becoming paranoid as well. This started to stress both of us out. So we had a talk and she decided that it would be best if we took a break. So we had a break for about a week. I then phoned her up to talk generally and find out what happens next. She said that it would be best if we didn’t go back out with each other. I felt really upset about this. I couldn’t stop crying for days on end. I have never felt so hurt in my entire life! I tried to persuade her that we just needed to talk about things and that and that we didn’t have to split up because of this. She seemed to disagree. Ever since then I cannot stop thinking about her. I just want her back. We both loved each other a lot. I still do love her. I have constantly been calling her and for some reason all I ever talk about to her is ‘us’. She recently has been getting really irritated with me because I keep calling her so much. I know now that that is a big mistake. I shouldn’t have done that. Im just desperate to get her back. I love her to bits! To this day I can honestly say that I have not stopped thinking about her. I don’t know what to do, but I know exactly what I want. I have made my feelings to her perfectly clear. She just doesn’t want to take me back. She says that I haven’t done anything wrong at all and that I was an amazing boyfriend. I have tried but she just seems to stay in my head. I really do love her. She is my first love and I’m her first love. I really, really want her back. I would do anything to get her back. Have you got any advice on how I could achieve this? Anything will do. Thank You for taking time to read this.

[Diablo]

Simply quit contacting her. As you said, you screwed up with all of those calls, so quit calling her and hope for some luck. Sometimes when the guy does that, the woman will change her mind, but any time you contact her makes it less likely. She could change her mind, but you've got to be prepared for her not changing her mind. It's okay to talk to her if she calls, but ditch the pitch to get her back. She knows you want her back. After a while, it gets like somebody who keeps asking a bank for a loan after repeatedly being told "no". It's rare for someone's first love to work out, but good luck with it.

[eightball61]

I agree with the above post....You do need to stop calling and all that will get you is maybe a case of harrassment or more. She has told you to quit calling and if you continue you can end up in jail or a court hearing. Be smart about this and get the hint that you both ill not be back together. Its hard but you have to learn to deal with it and move on. We all go through breakups befor we find the right one...so its normal.

[Want her back A]

well you may say that i aint got a chance but im not prepared to give up that easy. Is there any other advice that you could give me? I want her back and im not going to give up in trying to get her back.

[bdtraders]

As it has been stated on these forumsyou cant make someone want you.
Walk away and if chance brings you 2 together again someday then cool if not dont become a stalker.
You need to leave her alone.
You made a key statement saying she is your first love, you need to explore more and so does she to see what love is all about. Dont say you do cause you just said she is your first love, that tells me you dont have experience in love yet.
yes its hard cause you love her, but she wont be your last love.
Bottom line leave her alone, stop calling her, all your gonna do is push her farther away, leave it alone before you loose any thread that is still holding any chance of you and her ever getting back together.
Walk away and let her come to you, if she does then congrats if not then move on.

[eightball61]

I want her back and im not going to give up in trying to get her back.


Have it your way but when you get harrassment charges brought up to you dont come crying to us because we are telling you what may happen before hand.....Remember: she is with someone else so her heart is left....You can't win her back because her feeling have to come naturally back to you.

[NeverFall]

Hey man, I know that really hurts inside but let it go for some time, a few weeks or a month then if you still feel strongly ask her very simply and undespreatly to have lunch with you and have a serious convorsation about what you need to talk about (and listen to her side too). First love rarly last but if you want to give it a shot take some time, mello out and then take easy calm action. If that does not work get your fishing pole ready because it's time to go catch the right one! Good luck, I have been there it will all work out the way God intends it too. (I know that does not help right now.) Take care!