this is a tough one!!

[NeverFall]

thanks for all the help

[2BDMD]

Keep on praying!

[eightball61]

but how do you fight the God thing.:


If I could tell you how to over power God I would be the biggest name in the history of the Bible and the religous world.....lol :p What I am trying to say is you can't change her mind with a snap of a finger. Relationships take two people to work. You feel strongley about this but she doesn't. You can try offering taking things slower and see how they go down the road. Maybe this is just happening all way to fast for her pace.

Love is a strange thing like I am saying. You never know what will or will not work until last minute. MAny people goes years of marriage to find out they are with the wrong partner. You are better off to know now that it may not work rather than when your feelings are deeper into the relationship. Take things slow like I mentioned and talk to her about that. See what she has to say and work it from there. IF she doesn't want that either than just offer her a hand of friendship because that is just as valuable.

[NeverFall]

Yeah, that is what I was going to do. I figured that if anything will progress then it will start at friendship and if not then there is still the friendship. Thanks

[eightball61]

Just let nature take its course.....I know this may not be what you wanted to hear but just tell her that you are willing to take it slower and more at a friendship pace. After you both can monitor and talk more about what you both see as the future of being together.

[Rich]

Love is never forced and you can't force her to love you.

If she's not "feeling it" towards you, then she's not feeling it. Nothing you can do about it.

Also, I don't so much feel that it's God talking to her, but rather it's her angels and / or guides.

For whatever reason you're not at the right time or place with this girl.

Tell her that you don't agree with her feelings but that you respect them. Then move on.

Rich