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[prsawyer]

last semester i met this guy and i also was still going thru my fathers death it has been almost one yr. since he died. the guy i had met neither of us really notice each other at the begining of the semester he had the same teacher i had and his class was before mine. one day this same guy started staring and smiling back at me and i smiled back then it took him a month to talk to me we communicated great good chemistry, have some things in common but were both shy and in our 30's. the problem now is this semester we hardly see each other we have different schedules so we can not go for coffee or lunch together he works 30 hrs and takes 20 hrs at school i also work and go to school full time. when he does see me at school he always smiles and winks at me and i always smile back so we both show an interest and he was the one that approach me first and tried his best to get my attention. maybe this summer or fall semester me and this guy can have a class or classes together so we can know each other better seeing were both busy in school. i really don't want to loose this guy he came into my life one yr. after loosing my father and took some of that pain away he's really sweet and polite person and thoughtful who has a big heart who has been nothing but nice and a true gentlemen to be shown a great respect for me and has liked me for who i am not for my body.

[Ricksta]

In every relationship, communication is the most important aspect and since your schedules are conflicting, you are going to have to find other ways to communicate with each other. There is always e-mail and e-mail is a good idea because words are powerful and through honesty you will be able to have that deep connection.



Honesty is number one.

[prsawyer]

i do not think he has a email account , he has not lived here very long came from Wi- Tn i don't have his phone number besides he would not be at home when i'am cause he works till 4- 5 am except when i'm sleeping. i did give a card / letter telling him how sweet and wonderful he is which he liked very much. no i think maybe this summer or the fall semester me and this guy could have a class together but only time will tell.

In every relationship, communication is the most important aspect and since your schedules are conflicting, you are going to have to find other ways to communicate with each other. There is always e-mail and e-mail is a good idea because words are powerful and through honesty you will be able to have that deep connection.



Honesty is number one.

[Ricksta]

You are right, because time will indeed tell in the end, but yet on the other hand we still have the responsibility to determine our destiny and unless you put the effort in this relationship to make it work through honest communication, nothing is going to happen for you. If e-mail were out of the question, then perhaps snail mail would be the next option and it is most definitely better than nothing. I am a firm believer in destiny, but destiny can only be determined with action, you know what I mean?

Of course, the same goes for him, but love is about desire and you have to ask yourself how much effort you are willing to give in order to make everything work. This is about you and how you choose your life. All you have to do is try your best and let destiny take its course.

[prsawyer]

last semester i did give a card and letter and this guy i like really was happy after reading the card/ letter. in it i put that how wonderful and sweet he was to me. i do see him occassionally at school at times we get to stop a ask how the other one is doing. i do believe that me and this guy will know each other if sometime by having a class together i will see cause i'm really busy with school and so is this guy and it's not like i have a lot of men line up at my door paying attention to me. the same goes for this guy he does'nt have girls chasing him all over school seeing i usually see him alone at school like last semester i would see him eat alone at school. we both show an interest in each other it just our schedules are different this time around for the semester and i'm new at the school and he's the only guy who's gave me any attention so i'm willing to give him a chance seeing he approached me first.