Cuna84
12-14-2009, 08:03 AM
Hi all, I have already posted in this section http://relationshipforums.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4670, but things have moved on a little from that and wanted to know the answer to a question or two. It has been close to four weeks now (four weeks on Wednesday) and for the first week it was really painful, the next week and a half things began to settle down and I felt free and relieved things were over, now in the last week or so, especially in the last few days I am missing the ex gf more and more, and it seems to be worsening day by day. My friend says that its just a phase that you are going through, having good and bad phases, but just wanted peoples thoughts on this forum. Is it usual for things to get better then worse again, and will they get better again. I am really missing her now, I know that we will probably never get back together again, in fact I dont know if its would be a good idea that we did get back together. We did go out for 20 months so I things aren't going to be easy, and I probably won't know truly how I felt about her until I start a new relationship. At the moment it feels like I have lost the girl that I loved, I won't deny I still love her, but was she the one, thoughts please