gant77
12-16-2009, 09:45 PM
Uggh, I am soo disgusted it hurts!
I don't even know where to start. Basically it's like this, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and his brother had a girlfriend that he had started seeing about a year earlier. Now, his brother at the time already had a girlfriend, but he met a girl at his job,(vulture is her name, you'll learn why) she happened to be the payroll person and she knew who made what, so she planned her move to my BF's brother cause he made A LOT of money. She knew he had a girlfriend but it didn't matter to her. He wanted to have the best of both worlds... the REAL girlfriend (of 10 years), and the Vulture. The real girlfriend wouldn't go for that so he went for the Vulture, but he always loved, and could never let go of the real one.
About a year ago, my boyfriends brother was diagnosed with Cancer and the prognosis was very bad, stage 4 with no hope of a cure. He passed 12/08/09.
Here is where my anger just won't let go.
A week or two before he passed the girlfriend took it upon herself to write out a Will, giving her EVERYTHING! This caused a huge uproar in the family due to the fact she never consulted with the family to see if they wanted senitmental items. She literally itemized EVERYTHING that wasn't nailed down in the house, including a car and all furniture and even workout/exercise equipment that didn't even belong to her, they belonged to my boyfriend, and she knew it. She was counting on everyone being so involed with grief that she could waltz out like a bandit, and no one would question her.
To make it worse, she didn't even show up to the FUNERAL, CEMETARY, or the RECEPTION! She was oo busy back at the house PACKING!!!! She didnt even cry when he passed at the home! She smiled and said he was in a better place now! WTF?!?!?! When we went to the Mortuary to view the brother for the last time, she didn't even go up to the Casket to say goodbye! She claimed she loved him so much, but she does this s*&T???
I had to sit there and see my future mother in law suffer not only the loss of her son, (at 37), but suffer the embarrasment of having to wonder why this person who claimed to love her son to no end, was no where to be found.
She never came to the house or called or anything! She was just concerned about getting everything out of the house and getting the money the boyfriend gave her. She even told the boyfriend not to give the family more than $1000.00 for funeral expenses, even after he agreed to give them $5000.00!!! She wanted to make sure she came away with as much money as possible. During the discussion over the various accounts that the brother had, and who got what, she made sure that the account going to his Mother had the LEAST amount of money in it! She moved most of the money into the accounts the brother was giving her.
She once told me, while the brother was sick, that if he didn't marry her or give her kids, she was GOING TO LEAVE HIM. She wanted to be married and taken care of. I did tell my boyfriend, but he didnt want to rock the boat and he felt that, that's what his brother wanted. I tried to explain at the time she was going to get worse and the family needed to step in, no one did. As the brother became progressively worse, she got more evil! She had the nerve to tell my boyfriend that she didnt want the family giving him any food, except for salads! WTF! Salads for someone dying, who needs to gain weight to keep strong. This Vulture was NUTS!
She eve told the mom that she needed all the keys back because she didnt want people coming to see the brother and that it bothered her to have all the family around. The mom told her that she would gladly take her by her hair, and beat her all around the house!
There are so many more examples of the evilness that is this thing. I believe that Hell has a special place for her, and even the Devil is ashamed of the behaviour! Im just SOOOOOOOOOO pissed at her, I never liked her from day one, and I am just still shocked by the gall of this.
I don't even know where to start. Basically it's like this, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and his brother had a girlfriend that he had started seeing about a year earlier. Now, his brother at the time already had a girlfriend, but he met a girl at his job,(vulture is her name, you'll learn why) she happened to be the payroll person and she knew who made what, so she planned her move to my BF's brother cause he made A LOT of money. She knew he had a girlfriend but it didn't matter to her. He wanted to have the best of both worlds... the REAL girlfriend (of 10 years), and the Vulture. The real girlfriend wouldn't go for that so he went for the Vulture, but he always loved, and could never let go of the real one.
About a year ago, my boyfriends brother was diagnosed with Cancer and the prognosis was very bad, stage 4 with no hope of a cure. He passed 12/08/09.
Here is where my anger just won't let go.
A week or two before he passed the girlfriend took it upon herself to write out a Will, giving her EVERYTHING! This caused a huge uproar in the family due to the fact she never consulted with the family to see if they wanted senitmental items. She literally itemized EVERYTHING that wasn't nailed down in the house, including a car and all furniture and even workout/exercise equipment that didn't even belong to her, they belonged to my boyfriend, and she knew it. She was counting on everyone being so involed with grief that she could waltz out like a bandit, and no one would question her.
To make it worse, she didn't even show up to the FUNERAL, CEMETARY, or the RECEPTION! She was oo busy back at the house PACKING!!!! She didnt even cry when he passed at the home! She smiled and said he was in a better place now! WTF?!?!?! When we went to the Mortuary to view the brother for the last time, she didn't even go up to the Casket to say goodbye! She claimed she loved him so much, but she does this s*&T???
I had to sit there and see my future mother in law suffer not only the loss of her son, (at 37), but suffer the embarrasment of having to wonder why this person who claimed to love her son to no end, was no where to be found.
She never came to the house or called or anything! She was just concerned about getting everything out of the house and getting the money the boyfriend gave her. She even told the boyfriend not to give the family more than $1000.00 for funeral expenses, even after he agreed to give them $5000.00!!! She wanted to make sure she came away with as much money as possible. During the discussion over the various accounts that the brother had, and who got what, she made sure that the account going to his Mother had the LEAST amount of money in it! She moved most of the money into the accounts the brother was giving her.
She once told me, while the brother was sick, that if he didn't marry her or give her kids, she was GOING TO LEAVE HIM. She wanted to be married and taken care of. I did tell my boyfriend, but he didnt want to rock the boat and he felt that, that's what his brother wanted. I tried to explain at the time she was going to get worse and the family needed to step in, no one did. As the brother became progressively worse, she got more evil! She had the nerve to tell my boyfriend that she didnt want the family giving him any food, except for salads! WTF! Salads for someone dying, who needs to gain weight to keep strong. This Vulture was NUTS!
She eve told the mom that she needed all the keys back because she didnt want people coming to see the brother and that it bothered her to have all the family around. The mom told her that she would gladly take her by her hair, and beat her all around the house!
There are so many more examples of the evilness that is this thing. I believe that Hell has a special place for her, and even the Devil is ashamed of the behaviour! Im just SOOOOOOOOOO pissed at her, I never liked her from day one, and I am just still shocked by the gall of this.