soaddivine
01-06-2010, 09:08 PM
I was in a relationship for 5yrs and 6months, before we decided to take a break. Actually he wanted to. We never lived together. I did notice him taking me for granted, not respecting me as much as he use to but I didn't mentioned it, let alone wanted to end our relationship. He noticed his actions, and told me he needed time to get his life together before he could marry me. We did always talk about "when we get married", we never said "if we get married". He told me he needed to know he can take care of himself before he could take care of me. I understood all that because I've always paid the bills, told him he need to pay his rent, ect ect.
Its been a month now, but during this month was the holidays, and my birthday. We spend xmas together, my birthday was a trip to Vegas, that he paid for but didn't go because it was a girls trip. We spend New Years together.
A lot of time during the "break" we did still have , we still talked on the phone and say I love you like we've always have. He has also told me numerous times that this will only make us stronger . Also, a lot of the times, I've had break downs were didn't eat, didn't go out with my friends. Called him crying, and feeling like I was begging for us to be together again. I've told him that I don't feel whole, that I feel like I'm missing my partner. He tells me he feels the same, but still needs time, telling me he can't just change over night.
I need advice out side of my friends, I love him, I know he's the one I want to marry.
I'm 24, he is also 24.
I know we are still young, but he is the first I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about before I fall to sleep.
I want to know if anyone has been in my position, or do you guys thing we will get back together or any comments? Pls , I feel like another break down coming! Ugh!
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Its been a month now, but during this month was the holidays, and my birthday. We spend xmas together, my birthday was a trip to Vegas, that he paid for but didn't go because it was a girls trip. We spend New Years together.
A lot of time during the "break" we did still have , we still talked on the phone and say I love you like we've always have. He has also told me numerous times that this will only make us stronger . Also, a lot of the times, I've had break downs were didn't eat, didn't go out with my friends. Called him crying, and feeling like I was begging for us to be together again. I've told him that I don't feel whole, that I feel like I'm missing my partner. He tells me he feels the same, but still needs time, telling me he can't just change over night.
I need advice out side of my friends, I love him, I know he's the one I want to marry.
I'm 24, he is also 24.
I know we are still young, but he is the first I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about before I fall to sleep.
I want to know if anyone has been in my position, or do you guys thing we will get back together or any comments? Pls , I feel like another break down coming! Ugh!
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