Sizzurp
01-13-2010, 01:56 AM
Ok so ill start by explaining my relationship over the past month. The girl that i was just with i met at a party with friends early december and we had a instant connection we talked all night and starting the next day we texted and talked every day and we hung out a lot and after about a week and a half i asked her out and she said yes so we started dating and its been a month. Throughout this month we really opened up towards eachother we never had a serious disagreement we have the perfect amount in common and out of all my relationships i feel really good about being with her and she said she dealt the same.
I know its been a month but it fealt like we knew eachother forever and im convinced that by how well things were going and how well we get along and connect that shes the right one. Weve expressed to eachother that we are in love and she even said that she can actually see herself coming home to me in the future. Now weve been hanging out about every other day even more and everything was going perfect and then i noticed her asking weird a couple days ago out of the blue a day before the one month mark she texted me while i was at work saying she wants to be just friends. I asked why and she started saying how shes not ready for another serious relationship right now and she sees a future with me and shes not ready to face it and that she really wants to be with me and feels bad that she thought she was ready and she really wants to get back together but she just cant say when.
She did just get out of a year and a half relationship last june. She also said that she really does love me and she meant evrerything and she hopes i believe her and that shes been unfair by not being able to focus on our relationship and that i dont deserve that so she wanted to end it now before she screws it up forever... I dont know what to do like i want to be friends but i will always want to be more then friends and seeing her as friends would really kill me because it would just remind me of how great we were together. Please someone give me advice and/or feedback on the situation.
P.s. Im a senior in high school, and shes a sophomore which i think me graduating and starting my life may be a factor but ive already explained that my plans were to stay local anyway so i wouldnt be going anywhere.
I know its been a month but it fealt like we knew eachother forever and im convinced that by how well things were going and how well we get along and connect that shes the right one. Weve expressed to eachother that we are in love and she even said that she can actually see herself coming home to me in the future. Now weve been hanging out about every other day even more and everything was going perfect and then i noticed her asking weird a couple days ago out of the blue a day before the one month mark she texted me while i was at work saying she wants to be just friends. I asked why and she started saying how shes not ready for another serious relationship right now and she sees a future with me and shes not ready to face it and that she really wants to be with me and feels bad that she thought she was ready and she really wants to get back together but she just cant say when.
She did just get out of a year and a half relationship last june. She also said that she really does love me and she meant evrerything and she hopes i believe her and that shes been unfair by not being able to focus on our relationship and that i dont deserve that so she wanted to end it now before she screws it up forever... I dont know what to do like i want to be friends but i will always want to be more then friends and seeing her as friends would really kill me because it would just remind me of how great we were together. Please someone give me advice and/or feedback on the situation.
P.s. Im a senior in high school, and shes a sophomore which i think me graduating and starting my life may be a factor but ive already explained that my plans were to stay local anyway so i wouldnt be going anywhere.