CTGuy19
01-14-2010, 09:53 PM
My ex gf is coming to visit me this weekend and I have no idea how to act or read into this. Some real quick background: we broke up in March of 2009 after a year long relationship. She did some things she regrets in May i.e. sleeping with her ex and also this guy who just used her. So June rolls around and we are both interning in DC, her for the whole summer, myself for the first 6 weeks. We are both seniors in college. It starts slow but pretty soon we are kissing all the time, she's sleeping over, going out to dinner together, etc. At one point about 5 weeks into it she says maybe we should consider getting back together in the fall. I tried to sound positive yet somewhat indifferent about it.
The 6 weeks of me working there ends, and I head home. A week later we are talking on the phone and she says that she thinks the past 6 weeks were kind of a mistake and all that kind of stuff. She then gets an offer later that summer to stay and work in DC instead of going back to our college, so she takes the offer. So long story short, I end up semi-dating this kind of girl I worked with in DC over the summer and I date her through the fall. Problem is, she has to leave the country because her visa is up (she is British/Australian) and has no idea if she'll be back or when etc. so we have since broken up. My ex finds out about this like 3-4 weeks ago and all the sudden within the past 2 weeks she is calling me after work and at night all the time, texting me a bunch, and asked if she could come visit me at home over this weekend since I'm on college winter break. We also had a big convo a couple days ago about the girl just dated and the summer as a whole in which I felt we really didn't establish anything.
So now she is coming to see me on Saturday until Monday and I have no idea how to read into this or how to act around her. I feel like there is the possibility that she is just pulling the typical ex thing where they want you to be hung up on them, especially once they found out you dated someone(s) since them. But I also don't know if she might be genuinely interested in me? I feel like it's a pretty accurate assumption that this all began when she found out about my most recent girlfriend, but idk what her intentions are with all the sudden wanting to come see me.
The 6 weeks of me working there ends, and I head home. A week later we are talking on the phone and she says that she thinks the past 6 weeks were kind of a mistake and all that kind of stuff. She then gets an offer later that summer to stay and work in DC instead of going back to our college, so she takes the offer. So long story short, I end up semi-dating this kind of girl I worked with in DC over the summer and I date her through the fall. Problem is, she has to leave the country because her visa is up (she is British/Australian) and has no idea if she'll be back or when etc. so we have since broken up. My ex finds out about this like 3-4 weeks ago and all the sudden within the past 2 weeks she is calling me after work and at night all the time, texting me a bunch, and asked if she could come visit me at home over this weekend since I'm on college winter break. We also had a big convo a couple days ago about the girl just dated and the summer as a whole in which I felt we really didn't establish anything.
So now she is coming to see me on Saturday until Monday and I have no idea how to read into this or how to act around her. I feel like there is the possibility that she is just pulling the typical ex thing where they want you to be hung up on them, especially once they found out you dated someone(s) since them. But I also don't know if she might be genuinely interested in me? I feel like it's a pretty accurate assumption that this all began when she found out about my most recent girlfriend, but idk what her intentions are with all the sudden wanting to come see me.