CMJ82
02-08-2010, 03:45 PM
Hello All-
I'm just looking for different outlooks and peoples opinuions on my topic.
I've been in my current relationship for 3 years now. I knew from the beginning that he had a Female Best Friend, they have been Friends since High school. So as time went on through our relationship, I find out that her and her daughter are on HIS cell phone plan. Now a hand full of times, his phone has been restricted OR cut off totally because she (his female best friend) ALWAYS pays her bill late! (This is the 1st issue). He always says (to me) when her contract is up then she knows she has to get her own phone (granted this phone commitment thing has been in play way before I came along). (Second issue), me and my b/f had got into it and I guess he felt the need to vent to her, to make a long story short, his "so called" female best friend sent A LOT of FULL BODY pictures to his phone and was calling me (bad) names via text to him (I guess in regards to what he told her about our blow up). Needless to say she is still around I never got a apology from her, but he claims she gave HIM an apology about everything, she still on the cell phone plan, the same BS happens with the phone...And he has told me on numerous occassions, that she is not going anywhere, she will always be a part of his life because she has always been there for him when he needed it and she is a true friend.
Am I missing something? I really would like logical advice.
Thank You.
I'm just looking for different outlooks and peoples opinuions on my topic.
I've been in my current relationship for 3 years now. I knew from the beginning that he had a Female Best Friend, they have been Friends since High school. So as time went on through our relationship, I find out that her and her daughter are on HIS cell phone plan. Now a hand full of times, his phone has been restricted OR cut off totally because she (his female best friend) ALWAYS pays her bill late! (This is the 1st issue). He always says (to me) when her contract is up then she knows she has to get her own phone (granted this phone commitment thing has been in play way before I came along). (Second issue), me and my b/f had got into it and I guess he felt the need to vent to her, to make a long story short, his "so called" female best friend sent A LOT of FULL BODY pictures to his phone and was calling me (bad) names via text to him (I guess in regards to what he told her about our blow up). Needless to say she is still around I never got a apology from her, but he claims she gave HIM an apology about everything, she still on the cell phone plan, the same BS happens with the phone...And he has told me on numerous occassions, that she is not going anywhere, she will always be a part of his life because she has always been there for him when he needed it and she is a true friend.
Am I missing something? I really would like logical advice.
Thank You.