Should I call my Ex or should I leav it alone

[william9]

OK, so I broke up with my Ex-girlfriend about 4 months ago due to the fact that I didn't feel like she cared enough in the relationship. I haven't seen or have spoken to her since. For the past couple of weeks now I've been thinking about her. I don't know what it is or why but I've been so sad because she's not around.

I can't explain it; it's like all of the sudden these feelings came out of nowhere. I was fine for the first couple of months. Felt as though I made the right decision but now I'm thinking about her a lot. I'm not sure if it's loneliness or what. I've been even thinking about calling her and seeing how she's doing but I don't know if that's such a good idea. I don't know if she's dating someone or has a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I call her, if this stupid of me? Any advice would be appreciated....

[smackie9]

You broke up with her for a reason.....stick with it.

[RomanceIsntReal]

I agree stick with it. My ex came back after a three month break up and now three years later we are back where we started. What I'm trying to say is that I was just starting to feel good about the break up. I was stronger, more independent, and life was good again. It took me three months of crying to get to that point and then I did the supid thing of letting back in. Now I have to get over him all over again.

So, your ex might be at that point. Don't ruin it for her.