My girlfriend is visiting her ex gf..

[BreakMeSlowly]

Im dating a girl in Canada and we fight pretty often. While we were fighting about 3 weeks ago she made plans to visit her ex in Oregon. I live in California.
It really bothers me that she would do that. And she is mad at me because I dont trust her. She visited ANOTHER ex in Iowa a year ago and made out with her, so I know I'm not wrong to be upset. I want to end this relationship because I am sick of being hurt. Im sick of crying.
But I love her a lot.
I dont know what to do anymore :(

[smackie9]

There's just certain things one should not do and that's go out of town to see an ex. So I agree totally. Commitment to a relationship should be 100%. You love her of course but there are times in your life you have to love yourself more. The pain from a break up is short term, but pain from being in a bad relationship can go on forever.

[Fizzgig]

Agreed. Don't put up with that, I mean she cheated on you - I consider making out cheating, as I'm sure many others do. Save yourself the heart-ache.