What to do?

[confused88]

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 and a half months and we had out first fight, i think its because things started getting stale. After the fight and she completely avoided me for a week. During this week i went through a series of emotions and think I'm truly in love with her. Now that we are talking again she doesn't seem the same. The first thing she said to me after avoiding me was that she doesn't want to have again for awhile, and that i should forget about coming to visit her for awhile, because i "hurt" her and she needs some time. She says that we should only visit when there is no tension. This is hard to deal with because we only get to see each other for about a week every two months, and now i have to wait at least another two months to see her. Any advice, or should i be concerned?

Thank You

[smackie9]

LDR's are tough and only have a short life span. Truly how long do you expect this to last at this rate? Eventually one of you is going to meet someone locally, and of course the idea of someone you can see all the time is going to be more desirable. If you are in love you need to make a sacrifice....either you move to be close to her or you call it quits because it's only going to get worse now if things stay the same..