Anthoney83
02-24-2010, 10:43 PM
Around 6 months ago I started talking to a girl that I already knew more. A couple months later we started to date because we got a long really well. We never watched TV together, we never just sat around and did nothing. We actually talked on deep subjects and ideas. We agreed on almost everything together and we loved it. Well about 2 weeks ago from now, she tells me she loves me. She told me that she knew she loved me months ago. Well about a week later she starts to become kind of cold and distant.. So I send her an email saying that if she isn't ready for this or she feels that she needs time then we can do that.. I don't like being in a relationship when the other has something going on. We talked about it Friday and everything was fine, she said she was ok and still loved me. Saturday was even better, we hung out all day and had a lot of fun. Then Sunday she comes over and says we need a "break". That she is confused and selfish and all this stuff that made no since at the moment, she explained nothing. I asked her if she loved me and she could not say it.
Monday I call her and just end it because I can't sit and wait with out a clue of what is going on. I figured it would have been better for both of us.
I'm 27 and she is 25.
A little info about her.. She just got out of a 5-6 year relationship around 6 months ago. She said she was over it and ready to move on. Now she lives with her mom and she is pretty depressed about that. Even though she has a good job at a hospital she hates it. The guy she was with didn't really treat her like a loving girlfriend. She has huge father issues.. And it is really hard for her to communicate her emotions.
I treated her perfect and with a love I thought she deserved. Yet she explains nothing to me.
What the hell do I do now? I really need closure on this. How can someone go from "I love you" and the next day move on?
I really want to call her tonight and ask questions. I really need some type of clear explanation. I feel that after all I put in this relationship I should a least get that.. What do you think?
Monday I call her and just end it because I can't sit and wait with out a clue of what is going on. I figured it would have been better for both of us.
I'm 27 and she is 25.
A little info about her.. She just got out of a 5-6 year relationship around 6 months ago. She said she was over it and ready to move on. Now she lives with her mom and she is pretty depressed about that. Even though she has a good job at a hospital she hates it. The guy she was with didn't really treat her like a loving girlfriend. She has huge father issues.. And it is really hard for her to communicate her emotions.
I treated her perfect and with a love I thought she deserved. Yet she explains nothing to me.
What the hell do I do now? I really need closure on this. How can someone go from "I love you" and the next day move on?
I really want to call her tonight and ask questions. I really need some type of clear explanation. I feel that after all I put in this relationship I should a least get that.. What do you think?