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kasperstuntman
03-02-2010, 02:28 PM
I was dating a girl for about 6 weeks. She recently ended things with me. I was able to meet with her and talk about what happened. She told me she never felt anything for me the whole six weeks we dated. However, I do not believe that at all. There were things she would say, such as she saw as more than dating and she would not date other guys just 4 days before she ended things with me. Just two days before she ended things we spent the night together in Atlantic City. She would constantly tell me she missed me. She told me she liked me more than all the other guys she dated. She bought gifts for me when she was on vacation. And we always had a great time when we went out. We talked to each other every day since we met and say each other 3-4 times a week. Not to mention the ual stuff we would do together. I just cant believe she would say and do the things things she said and did if she never felt a single thing for me. The one thing she did tell me was that she felt like things moved way to fast and we forced things. From past conversations with her i known she never had a serious relationship and only dated guys for 1 or 2 months. I told her i kind of feel like things moved to fast for her and she got a little scared and started to push me away, that is seemed like a pattern when guys got to close she would push them away, but she assured me that was not the reason. So nothing ended badly we talked like civil humans, and she told me in a few weeks when I feel OK and I'm ready, to contact her and we can be friends, b.c she thinks I'm a really great, nice guy and wants to stay friends with me.
I want to know if its a good idea to remain friends? Is there any chance we can date again? I really felt like we had something between us, and i just don't believe she felt nothing. If she felt nothing why would she wait six weeks to end things? I know i usually know within the first week and first couple dates if there is something there with a person. (We are both 23)

smackie9
03-11-2010, 01:37 AM
You may think things were great, but she may not have been so fulfilled. Being friends, that's your choice. Just be prepared for her to come running up to you someday to show you an engagement ring on her finger that her BF just gave her.