sweetchick
04-18-2005, 09:01 AM
Okay this will probably be pretty long so let me say sorry in advance! I met this guy in Feb through my brother in law who I live with. They work together and are pretty good friends. Well we started dating, he went home for the whole month of March and when he came back we hung out and we've already had and all that. Well Im guessing were dating I asked him about a week ago what he thought the two of us were and he said he didnt know what term they used for it now days but he would say dating where we only see eachother and not other people! Great! But anywaze Thrusday night he came over and his car he was driving isnt registered so I had brought up the idea that he should rent a car for the weekend because my sister and my brother in law all wanted to go to this bar type thing downtown.. He said yea, He rented a car sat. and called, well we decided not to go that day and I told him we would go sunday he said okay... He went out with his friends last night and he called me around 9 and we talked and he asked if we were still going downtown and I said yea were leaving at 11 am he said he would be here by 10. (today the day we went) it was like 1030 and I called and he just woke up and I told him to atleast be at our house by 1130 cuz I was riding with him. He called me back about 20 mins later and left a voicemail saying 2 other people were coming (which kinda ticked me off cuz I invited him only him, I thought it would be cool since all we had done since he got back was hang out at my house) Well it was like 11:40 and after many calls and txt's of saying ill be there in a few or im on my way. Me and my sister and them decided just to leave. When we pulled out and started down the street he came and he pulled up next to us and my sister told him we were going down there and he said want me to follow you and were like yea. Well we were all alittle mad and my sister was extremly mad not at him but at the kids and I guess she did seem mad. Anywaze he just speeded off. Well he went another direction and when we got to the road that turns into the highway we didnt see him because he pretty much speeded off. Theres an exit right next to the highway to go to this other town. (i live on a island) Well we figured he was just up ahead. We got downtown and my sis called him to see if they knew where they were going. His friend anwsered the phone and they didnt know where they were but they knew how to get to the place we were going to. We got there and they never showed up! We were there for like 3 or 4 hours and I kept calling but no anwser. I txt'd him and said "if your not coming txt me and tell me" he txt's back and said "OK im nothing" im not even sure what that meant the only thing I can figure out is he meant okay im not. Anywaze I got mad and txt'd him and put "ya know what nevermind just forget it bye" no txt back I txt'd him again and put " if you didnt want to come today then you could have told me this morning" no txt back! Well a while ago I called him and no anwser I called back a few hours later and he anwsered and he said the reason they didnt come down there was because we seemed mad at him when he pulled up next to us! WHATEVER!!! Me and my sis was talking and she said they probably took the exit before the highway and went back home or somewhere else because we didnt even see them on the highway. And plus it was weird that they "didnt know where they were" when we called! How could you not KNOW! Anywaze when we talked last I asked if he was ganna come by tonight and he said no he was getting ready for work tomorrow! which I guess he would have to but i dunno I said i was going and he said ok and i just hung up! It makes me soooo mad because we talked about going like 3 days in advance and then he acts like he's going down there and then NEVER shows up! I have a right to be mad? right? I dont think he even attempted to go down there after he came by and talked to us! He lied the way I see it and I HATE LIERS!!! he also sent me this txt early that said "y called or text me so thats that" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???? I dont what my point to this post is!!! I guess venting and asking at the same time I do have a right to be mad right?? And I know this sounds dumb but since we have only dated a short period of time Is he going to think im crazy for being so mad about it? Should I try to talk to him? or what?? I want him to know Im mad about it STILL!!!!!!! and like honestly I dont even think he's that serious about me and him, I did intill today! It just seems like he dont come over as much as he used to should I tell him that too! Or is he going to think im stupid since its like we havent been dating that long. Oh yea and another thing, Im moving back home in June, so is it stupid if I ask him if he is serious about us since im leaving, i want us to be serious!
P.s
Im planning on txting him before I go to bed any ideas on what to say???
P.s
Im planning on txting him before I go to bed any ideas on what to say???