Need some advice on this....

[Hockey9019]

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[eightball61]

You know you can't force her feelings nor change her mind. She simply doesn't know what she wants yet or even which direction to head. She has 2 guys that are trying to fight for her heart and at the same time she doesn't even know if she wants to date yet. She seems to like the life of just having a warm body around without any attachment. At her age I would say its pretty normal in not wanting to be tied down.

You are jealous because you want something you can't have right now. This doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings for you but she just doesn't feel the way you feel for her. The only thing you can do right now is just continue being a friend to her and share your feelings. She seems pretty open and so you will still hear about things she is doing with this other guy or guys. If you can't handle it then tell her. She seems to tell you because she feels close to you as a friend. You have admitted your feelings this weekend and she has held hers back giving you the hint that she is just not ready for that committmnet.

For now just charish the friendship you have until you can't stand things anymore(anotherwords if the jealousy is making things tough). Be the same friend that you have always been to her. All she wants right now is to keep you as a close friend. When she gets out of school you never know where things may lead to. Take your friendship one step at a time and don't let the power of jealousy get in the way. If her heart finds that you may be the one then it will guide her that way but for right now its confused and unknow to what it wants. All she does know is that she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship and she has told you that.

[Rich]

You're girlfriend is growing and her mind is opening up on many levels. College should do that to you.

Seems like some of her feelings and beliefs are changing as she grows and that includes feelings for you.

Young folks like yourself shouldn't be committed because you are still growing and your thought process changes.

Freedom brings many things and sometimes one of those isn't happiness for a young boyfriend and girlfriend. Your girlfriend wants to meet different people and see different things. She is in a new stage in her life and will be for a few years.

I don't see your relationship lasting as most teenage relationships don't when the parties go off to college.

Sorry I could offer what you're looking to hear.

Rich