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pmia8819
03-13-2010, 09:56 PM
Ok, well i'm in the military currently deployed. since i'vehttp://relationshipforums.com/forum/newthread.php?do=newthread&f=16 been here i've been talking with people via facebook im alot, one girl in particular. she's from my home state, i've known her for years, but i've never really gotten to know her till now. she's smart, fun, cute, and a caring, hardworking girl. I admit, i like her, even tho i havent seen her in a year i'm developing feelings for her. i know that i'm going to spend some time with her the next time i go home but i'm wondering if i should talk with her about how i feel. I'm hesitant to do it because here i am 7000 miles away and when i get back i'll still be 1200. i'm in the military and cant move back if something sparks and she's in college and could move but it'd be hard if things sparked. so i'm thinking i should just let it be. but on the other side we are getting alot closer from chatting with each other almost on a daily basis.

what do you think? should i tell her i like her and talk to her about it? and if yes, how should i go about it?

eightball61
03-24-2010, 12:20 AM
Doesnt hurt to try however if you are looking for future growth here it may not happen as you never know where you will be next.

smackie9
04-01-2010, 09:53 PM
Nothing wrong with starting something casual, but never jump in and express how much you like someone right off the start. You want to wait till an actual relationship starts first.