Suggestion for a new forum

[Ricksta]

Since this bulletin board is about love and relationships, I feel that it is important to have another forum that deals with the love provided for oneself.

The basis of giving advice here is about building a sense of dignity and integrity and I cannot stress enough how essential it is for the members here to understand that the love in a relationship isn't everything that should be focused on but the love for oneself, too.

[precious]

Since this bulletin board is about love and relationships, I feel that it is important to have another forum that deals with the love provided for oneself.

The basis of giving advice here is about building a sense of dignity and integrity and I cannot stress enough how essential it is for the members here to understand that the love in a relationship isn't everything that should be focused on but the love for oneself, too.
I agree!! I love me but then I don't think I am pretty and all.. And say to me you have to "love yourself" first.. Or something to that affect..

[Ricksta]

That is exactly it, Jenn. It is important for you to be encouraged and reminded that you have a beautiful heart and that you have everything to live for because that is the honest truth here. And you definitely should love yourself first for your information. :)

I really like your quote, by the way.

[browneyedgirl03]

Amen to both of yall! "To know thyself is to love thyself."

OH and jenn, i love your quote too! I used to have in another profile of mine!:cool:

[buster]

Self esteem is great to build and will be like fuel to your own fire, sounds great rick, count on me being there soon as you start it

[Ricksta]

Unfortunately, I don't have the power to change the bulletin board for the better, but I appreciate all the support I am receiving here.

[Byron]

I think there is a reason the forum was created this way for the main love stages. We can post any general topics into the General Chat forum.

[Ricksta]

When it comes to the stages of love, the most important first step is to learn how to love yourself because without knowing how to love yourself it is impossible to know how to love another. I hardly think this stage should be trivialised in general discussion.

[Thug Life]

Since this bulletin board is about love and relationships, I feel that it is important to have another forum that deals with the love provided for oneself.

The basis of giving advice here is about building a sense of dignity and integrity and I cannot stress enough how essential it is for the members here to understand that the love in a relationship isn't everything that should be focused on but the love for oneself, too.

good idea.

[cherklatch]

How old are you honey? You sound as if you're a man with great wisdom which only comes with age or a totally wonderful mother. I can tell you this - any woman would be damn lucky to have you some day. Everybody listening - this is what a REAL MAN should be like. Here here for you sir. You're a true gentleman and scholar. Count on my support if it matters. It's also important to stress not to let anybody put you down. It took me years of therapy to get that concept. Everyone has value in this world and everyone is entitled to be praised for their positive qualities from the person they love - not put down for their negative ones - or worse yet - having negative ones made up for the simple purpose of putting you down. I have seen true genuises crumble when it came to matters of the heart. The human race needs to evolve daily in this regard.