mgh927
03-30-2010, 06:55 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years now. We do not officially live together, but we are ALWAYS together, either at my place or his. Lately, I've been feeling like he is losing interest in me, or he doesn't love me anymore. When I express this to him, he says he does, but he doesn't show it because I don't "try" anymore. The last 3 weeks I've done what his definition of "trying" is (getting dressed up nice and doing my hair and make up daily) and still nothing. He ALWAYS wants us to have , all the time, multiple times a day. I don't have the stamina for this. If we don't have every day (or every other) it's a HUGE thing to him and he gets furious. :confused:
My boyfriend also has this thing. He likes to smell parts of his body (weird, I know, but I'm used to it) and wants me to smell too. It is disgusting to me and I want nothing to do with it, but I don't care if he does it. When I tell him no, he forces me to smell it and when I yell at him, he gets pissed off and doesn't understand why it bothers me so much. "It's just a smell" - in his words.
I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. Can someone give me some kind of insight? Some advice? I need something.
My boyfriend also has this thing. He likes to smell parts of his body (weird, I know, but I'm used to it) and wants me to smell too. It is disgusting to me and I want nothing to do with it, but I don't care if he does it. When I tell him no, he forces me to smell it and when I yell at him, he gets pissed off and doesn't understand why it bothers me so much. "It's just a smell" - in his words.
I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong. Can someone give me some kind of insight? Some advice? I need something.