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KIRST
04-19-2005, 07:58 PM
Well I Joined Coz I Need Some Advice About How To Go About Telling Someone I Love Them. Shes An Older Women And She Was My Teacher At School. I Aint Seen Her For 8 Years And Miss Her Soooooo Much. I Know Where She Lives But Dont Want To Just Turn Up On Her Door Step. I Dont Know If She , In A Relationship Or Anything What Shall I Do Pls Help
eightball61
04-19-2005, 08:19 PM
hmmmm... My suggestion would be to find out first if she is taken or not. Its been 8 year and anything can happen. Since you know where she lives try writing a letter and if she responds then go from there. In the letter just ask her how things are going, if she remembers you, and your contact info.

You must have had a strong love for her after all these years...What was it that made you have such a feeling for so long? did you both have something going on before? are you male or female? please give us some history if you can...
KIRST
04-19-2005, 08:26 PM
Ye She Was And Still Is Special To Me. I Thought When At School It Was A Young Crush But Now 8 Years On My Feelings For Her Are Greater. Nothing Went On Between Us As I Was Only 13 And She Would Have Been In Serious Trouble If We Got Found Out. The Thing That Atracted Me To Her Was Her Smile And Her Blue Bold Eyes I Love Her Soo Much. Im Confused N Desperatly Need To Know How She Feels But Dont Want To Scare Her. I Need To Find As Iv Had A Nunber Of Relationships But Finished Them Because I Couldnt Get Her Out Of My Mind And I Dont Think I Eva Want To. Write Bk Ye Thanks Againx
eightball61
04-19-2005, 08:34 PM
My only suggestion I have is to write a letter since you know her address. See if she contacts you back and if so then take it from there...if she doesn't then you know she has no interest. I wish I had more to help but thats a start to something....goodluck
Howard
04-19-2005, 09:14 PM
Hi Kirst.Good luck in this relationship with your teacher.Having relationships with teachers can be pretty tricky.
KIRST
04-19-2005, 09:17 PM
Hi Haward Thanks For Ur Reply. Have You Had An Experience With A Teacher? Ye Its Already Complicated And I Dont Know How She Feels But Do Know Shes Worth It Pls Reply
SALly
04-19-2005, 09:32 PM
How old are you? and how old approximately is the teacher?
Howard
04-19-2005, 09:37 PM
Hi Haward Thanks For Ur Reply. Have You Had An Experience With A Teacher? Ye Its Already Complicated And I Dont Know How She Feels But Do Know Shes Worth It Pls Reply


Nope.can't say I have.I've never had any romantic feelings for a woman teacher.I've been out of High School for almost 13 years now.
eightball61
04-19-2005, 09:42 PM
With this many people in our world any thing is possible to happen....
Howard
04-19-2005, 10:00 PM
With this many people in our world any thing is possible to happen....


Well 8Ball,not me.I've never had any romantic feelings for a teacher.I'm not Villi Fulau. :D
eightball61
04-19-2005, 10:06 PM
I am just pointing out that I have learned never to under estimate the power of possibility.