What women want

[bdtraders]

So ladys is it true that you would perfer a guy that is challenge compared to a guy that caters to your every request.

My friends handed me an article today that was about how the majority of women out there perfer a guy with an attitude over one that treats them like a princess.
Basiclly nice guys finish last while jerks get ahead.

Also another point of the article said that one of the number one things that drives women away is a guy that says I love you all the time. Is this true?

[SALly]

I guess it can go either way...depending on the situation. I can't stand a guy that is falling all over me. One that has no mind of his own and is only doing and saying everything he thinks I want to hear and see. I don't think that is being a nice guy--- because he will act different when he is away from me. I like someone who has his own opinions but is willing to compromise sometimes. I don't like someone who acts and feels superior..... our bodies and minds do many different things as man and woman..... just because we are different and/ or have different strong and weak points doesn't mean we can't be equal.

[Diablo]

I'm not a woman, but I can say that if someone is saying "I love you" constantly, it gets to be a bit much. I had a girlfriend once who got to calling over a dozen times a day and would sometimes get mad because I wasn't calling her. When people to get to that point, they aren't very rational. It is okay to be nice to women, you cannot be a lovestruck puppy with women though and you have to stay rational no matter how strong your feelings for her are. A woman typically wants a man who looks like he just stepped off a movie set, has the income of Midas, has a heart of gold, a backbone of steel and the mind of Einstein. Somewhere down the line, most of them develop more realistic expectations, but with virtually all women; if they think you have no backbone, they're gone.

[eightball61]

I agree that it can go either way. I see this because as individuals we all have different wants and differents needs. That survey from that article found from its viewers that women prefer to have this type of man. This doesn't mean this is what every women want. If they took a survey on every signle women(impossible) in this world then I would believe the outcome. This is just a stat and something for someone to right about. Relationships todays are a hot topic to read and write so anyone that publishes will try to find something so it can make them a little money off from us people.

The article can be true but from being an active user to relationship boards I have seen different opinions. From what I have gathered, many women like to have a protective man of them but at the same time have Mr. Nice guy. Each relationship differ's and the only thing you can do as a man is be yourself. There are things that you may have to alter or change along the way but being yourself will help find your ideal match(thats my belief).

[cfbpunxsy]

Hey
As far as my opinion goes on this, a guy must have written that article...either that or the writer just got out of a painful relationship.

My boyfriend treated my like a princess for the first 5 months of our relationship...we are on month 6 now, and he doesn't seem to care anymore...he doesn;t cater to me like he used to and I don;t get all the pet names and kisses and loving I used to...
It breaks my heart the way he treats me now, and i feel like he doesn't want me anymore..

Every guy should treat his girl like a princess...just like every girl should treat her guy like a prince...
Never take anyone for granted.

I think the article may have meant that when you first meet a girl and are trying to get her to like you, don't hang over her... at first clinyness can scare her away...but once you like her and she likes you too, then you show her that she has and always will be your princess...
just don't go too fast in the beginning

[Rykitten]

I agree with that the article, sort of. I like a challenge in the beginning. When I'm getting to know someone I like my space and freedom. I don't like to be called 24/7. Once a connection is made I like to be spoiled with affection and time.

[inquisitive]

As a woman I don't agree with that. I don't want someone with an "attitude" or a "nice guy". I want someone to have a healthy balanced life with. Not too clingy and not an asshole.

[bdtraders]

Heres the type of guy i am, maybe its gotten to be to much

when we are at work i will either call her or she will cal me about twice a day. Both time is will tell her i love her and miss her.

I write her about 2-3 romatic letters a week.
I bought her a book "100 things i love about you" and wrote my own things in the book next to each phrase. (she said "thanks" and put it on the kitchen counter, it hasnt moved for days, shes never read it)

She used to be the same way and write me letters and the such but no longer, i have even told her that i love it when she used to write letters and her response was "thats nice".

She just dosent seem to be as romantic as before. This is the first relationship where i have been so romantic and it seems to be biting me in the butt.

[eightball61]

She just dosent seem to be as romantic as before. This is the first relationship where i have been so romantic and it seems to be biting me in the butt.



Try what I stated in my last thread in your other post: Instead of calling her and asking whats wrong back away from that and start asking about her day and how you can't wait to see her. Try being more romantic rather than being annoying over the phone. If that doesn't work then I am afraid to say nothing will.

[bdtraders]

Yea I already tell her i miss her but i see your point.

its hard to back off cause i dont want to go to far and push her away but i do agree with the backing off part.

I just hope i know when to stop backing up.

[Howard]

Women want support,love,a guy who has a paying job,someone that has a lot of money,someone who cares a lot mentally,physically and emotionally.

I have a girlfriend Robin who is 25 years old.We've been seeing each other for about 7 months now.I tell her I love you on occasions,I spend time with her,we hold hands,french kiss,talk about each other's feelings on the phone and basically love one another. :)

[eightball61]

Women want support,love,a guy who has a paying job,someone that has a lot of money,someone who cares a lot mentally,physically and emotionally.



Howard, I do agree with you here that women want love and support but I don't agree with they want someone that has alot of money. Sure A couple like to be finacially secure but money does not but love. What gets love is what you stated and that physical contact and emotional contact.

Money does carry things a long way but still doesn't buy love. If you have a job and show a lot of motivation in giving a helping hand around the house, to her, and having an income then money means little I believe. When you are married you join the incomes together and establish a living together by getting what you can afford. Money to me means so little in that sense because the way I see it is if you have the partner you love, a roof over your head, and a goal then things will be ok. You have to dream a little but dreaming to me is what got me this far.

Howard, I do agree with you in alot of areas here but I wanted to expand further to what maybe you were trying to point out. Maybe you just see things differently in this area but I wanted to expand with my thoughts.

[SALly]

I'll tell you what. Money is nothing without love. NOTHING.....
Life without a lot of money can be tough, but life without LOVE is tougher!!!!

[eightball61]

but money doesn't buy real love...

[SALly]

didn't say it did

[eightball61]

I don't think sooo :confused: maybe the blond in me just hit again :eek:

[SALly]

Two words for you: Hair Dye!!!!! :p :D

[eightball61]

It won't help much because its naturally blond so I will just shave it to save the hassle :D

[lakegoddess]

I guess it has to be somewhere in the middle. We both have to chase each other a little. I definitely don't like guys who are over-obsessive (though it seems like I attract those). But if the guy has a bigger attitude problem than me (a girl), then he isn't being the bigger man. Hard to say...

[inquisitive]

Heres the type of guy i am, maybe its gotten to be to much

when we are at work i will either call her or she will cal me about twice a day. Both time is will tell her i love her and miss her.

I write her about 2-3 romatic letters a week.
I bought her a book "100 things i love about you" and wrote my own things in the book next to each phrase. (she said "thanks" and put it on the kitchen counter, it hasnt moved for days, shes never read it)

She used to be the same way and write me letters and the such but no longer, i have even told her that i love it when she used to write letters and her response was "thats nice".

She just dosent seem to be as romantic as before. This is the first relationship where i have been so romantic and it seems to be biting me in the butt.

What sort of time period did you do all this in? To me it seems over the top. When my SO and I broke up about 3 yrs ago part of the reason was stuff like this. He'd call me constantly at work just to say "hi", "I love you", "I miss you" etc. He wrote me numerous letters. I can't even remember how many.

At first it was sweet, and I'd do the same back. But it got overwhelming. I mean I miss him at work, and I love him, but honestly I don't want him constantly calling me etc. It feels to.... clingy.

He still does that stuff, but not as much. We'll send eachother a text message in the morning saying "I love you, have a good day" or something to that affect. Sometimes we talk on the phone at work - not very often though.. like maybe once a week if that. Sometimes we leave eachother notes saying "I love you" "You're y, beautiful, handsome" etc, but it's not often. That way when we get something from the other person it's a pleasant little surprise. It makes your heart feel good because it's not expected.

Do you know what I mean?

[inquisitive]

Women want support,love,a guy who has a paying job,someone that has a lot of money,someone who cares a lot mentally,physically and emotionally.


Hi Howard! I agree with you about everything but the money part. Money is not important, at least not to me, when it comes to someone you love :)

[SALly]

Originally Posted by bdtraders
Heres the type of guy i am, maybe its gotten to be to much

when we are at work i will either call her or she will cal me about twice a day. Both time is will tell her i love her and miss her.

I write her about 2-3 romatic letters a week.
I bought her a book "100 things i love about you" and wrote my own things in the book next to each phrase. (she said "thanks" and put it on the kitchen counter, it hasnt moved for days, shes never read it)

She used to be the same way and write me letters and the such but no longer, i have even told her that i love it when she used to write letters and her response was "thats nice".

She just dosent seem to be as romantic as before. This is the first relationship where i have been so romantic and it seems to be biting me in the butt.

OK bdtraders--that is too much--unless she is the kind of person that would love that, which apparently she isn't...that is just too much. There has to be a happy medium found. I mean- I question everyday if my husband loves me anymore or even knows I exist. So don't go off the deep end that way. But I would die having someone falling over me 24/7 like you described in that post.

[bdtraders]

Yea i have backed off and it seems to made somewhat of a change.

I stopped telling her I love and miss her at the end of every phone conversation we have, now i just end it with, ok bye. I havent wrote her any love letters (even though i want to). I called her this am after i took the kids to school (she likes to know they got up and to school ok) and we talked a bit and then said byes, with no i love yous. about 30 minutes later she called me and said"just called to say i love you" i responded "thanks, that means alot, i love you to, have a good day at work"

Seems when i back off a bit she becomes more loving. Weird

[SALly]

Weird-- but GOOD!!! :D

[bdtraders]

I hope, she was also off work and she seems more loving when shes away from work at times also.

[eightball61]

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I stopped telling her I love and miss her at the end of every phone conversation we have, now i just end it with, ok bye. I havent wrote her any love letters (even though i want to). I called her this am after i took the kids to school (she likes to know they got up and to school ok) and we talked a bit and then said byes, with no i love yous. about 30 minutes later she called me and said"just called to say i love you" i responded "thanks, that means alot, i love you to, have a good day at work"



I never said to back away from being sweet to her...infact, I pointed out thats not what you want to do. What you need to back away from is the annoying questions asking her is "something is wrong". You need to hold that back and give more of the "how was your day", "i love you", and "can't wait to see you".

[SALly]

I never said to back away from being sweet to her...infact, I pointed out thats not what you want to do. What you need to back away from is the annoying questions asking her is "something is wrong". You need to hold that back and give more of the "how was your day", "i love you", and "can't wait to see you".
Yeah- but I said he needed to back off a bit. not completely but a bit.....

[eightball61]

Right....he needs to back off but he needs to keep the positive approach there still or it will get her thinking bad stuff because of the distance.

[Howard]

Howard, I do agree with you here that women want love and support but I don't agree with they want someone that has alot of money. Sure A couple like to be finacially secure but money does not but love. What gets love is what you stated and that physical contact and emotional contact.

Money does carry things a long way but still doesn't buy love. If you have a job and show a lot of motivation in giving a helping hand around the house, to her, and having an income then money means little I believe. When you are married you join the incomes together and establish a living together by getting what you can afford. Money to me means so little in that sense because the way I see it is if you have the partner you love, a roof over your head, and a goal then things will be ok. You have to dream a little but dreaming to me is what got me this far.

Howard, I do agree with you in alot of areas here but I wanted to expand further to what maybe you were trying to point out. Maybe you just see things differently in this area but I wanted to expand with my thoughts.



Ok 8Ball,I see where you're coming from.Thanks. ;)

[Howard]

Hi Howard! I agree with you about everything but the money part. Money is not important, at least not to me, when it comes to someone you love :)


Love is wonderful.you can never take Love away.love is beautiful when you deep french kiss.that's the ultimate love right there. :)

[Howard]

give someone you love a call and think about that Stevie Wonder song"I Just Called To Say I Love You" :D

[bdtraders]

I havent backed off completly, I still do ask her hows her day, i do tell her i love her just not as much as before. I still cuddle with her and show her love. Im just not nagging her anymore. Yes I am going to cut back on the letter writing cause they dont seem to matter that much anyway to her, and if she says anything about it ill just say well the last nice thing i did is still sitting on the kitchen counter unopened.

[Howard]

My girl calls me on the phone and says she's bored so I talk to her and console with her and let her know that I'm there when times are trouble so I can be her crutch.She nudges me but I love her to death. :)

[bdtraders]

Just seems that when i back off a bit she gets closer, i need to find the happy medium, where ever that is.

[inquisitive]

Just seems that when i back off a bit she gets closer, i need to find the happy medium, where ever that is.

You have to give it time. That's the only way to find that happy medium. Sometimes I text my SO 5, 6 times a day. But the next day maybe once to say "Have a good day, I love you".

For us we don't monitor it. It's... comfortable, although it took a while to get there!

[bdtraders]

Yea she might send me a text once a week (if that), but then i see she texts her friends (when me and her are out or whenever) 2-3 times a day (when we are together that i know of).

She used to text me all the time, now its like she dosent. When i ask her why she dosent text as much anymore she says she dosent want to waste money.

Seems like all the stuff i like she stops;

1. Used to call me and say she loved me out of the blue, i told her i liked it and it slowly faded away.

2. Used to write me letters, i told her i loved her letters and she stopped writing letters and started buying cards (becuase they express her heart better), i told her i like the cards, now i dont get cards.

3. She bought devotional/comunication books for us to read together, i told her i enjoyed the books and the conversation we had, it stopped under a week later, they now collect dust.

4. She used to pray every night how thankful she was for me and the kids and so on etc, etc. She bragged to her friends that she loved doing that and told me that. I told her i love it when she does that to, it stopped, now i have to ask her to pray to get her to pray at night.

Seems like everytime i tell her i enjoy something she stops it.

[bdtraders]

I called her to see how her day was going and they said she was on break, so i said ok and hung up. A minute later she calls back and says sorry she was out on a break smoking a cigarette. I said no biggie just calling to see how your day is. We chit chat for a bit about work and home and seh says she needs to get back to work. (the whole conversations he seemed down but i didnt ask whats wrong). I told her ok well call me later and she said ok, I said I miss you babe and she said no you dont. I said um ok why dont I. she said because i feel like you dont love me anymore either. I told her that she couldnt be more wrong and told her how much i cared about her. I told her whats wrong andshe said shes just scared i dont want her anymore cause shes screwing up us and her children. I told her I love you, never question my love for you, i will always love you till the day i die. I am 32 years old and have never loved anyone more in my life. She said she was just scared of loosing everything. I told her just focus on work right now and we can talk more when she gets home if she wants, but i do love her with all of my heart. She said ok and we said i love yous and goodbyes.

Arrggghhhhhh .....whats this game...now i dont love her, ,,,,,what does she want!!!!!!!!!!

[eightball61]

Arrggghhhhhh .....whats this game...now i dont love her, ,,,,,what does she want!!!!!!!!!!


My GF says the same thing....She just needs to have more security in showing that you do love her. This is why I am telling you not to back off on the affection. Its ok to back off from being annoying but keep the affection the same at all times. When my GF does it she giggles it off in a evil way but I tell her "you can believe what you want to believe but if I didn't love you then I wouldn't be with you." & its so true...She is the 1st I ever said "i love you" and it took a long time to say it because I never believed in saying "i love you" unless it was truelly meant. I have learned to do the best I can in helping out my GF's insecurities. I have problems myself I need to fix. We seem to be getting along fine going that route so I am going to stick with it.

[bdtraders]

yea it just threw me for a loop since im the one that feels unloved.

i do all the loving things and shes the one that feels unloved, um last time i checked your the one that hasnt cracked opne that book i did or you that sits on the counter...

just frustrated like what more do you want, what will make you happy. what can i do to make you feel loved cause im speechless.

[eightball61]

I gave up on trying to be superman in my relationship. I came to the realization it takes two people to make something work. So I then backed off some and I started to notice a positive change of her putting her part into the relationship instead of all me.

[Diablo]

Whoever said money is not important to women was not poor. It matters. Most women do not require that a man have a fortune, but if you don't have the minimum amount of money that a woman requires her man to have; she'll have nothing for you regardless of what her feelings for you are. I'm probably going to get blasted for saying that, but it's true.

[eightball61]

but if you don't have the minimum amount of money that a woman requires her man to have; .


Right...she wants to establish a future with someone that she can grown with. She doesn't want to date a bum that doesn't have a job nor any kind of income. Good partners are not money hungrey and they don't need to have that rich partner. A good partner is simply looking for a relationship where they can grow together comfortably and be happy as a couple.

There will be rough patches to a relationship/marriage like where a spouse may lose a job, but all the other partner wants is someone that won't sit around because they can't get a job that paid like the last one or it doesn't pay better. To me having an income is better than having no income. I would take any job out there to get some sort of income into the house to help out with bills.

[inquisitive]

Whoever said money is not important to women was not poor. It matters. Most women do not require that a man have a fortune, but if you don't have the minimum amount of money that a woman requires her man to have; she'll have nothing for you regardless of what her feelings for you are. I'm probably going to get blasted for saying that, but it's true.

I've been poor, believe me. We are not well off right now, either. We have enough to get by on but not enough to get ahead on at the moment. I don't "require" him to have any certain amount of money. I do love him regardless. So no it is NOT true.

[Diablo]

For you perhaps it isn't true, but most women are not going to marry into poverty. Also, you know that you two are just in a down time, you know that better times are ahead. 'Course, if they keep outsourcing the good jobs, you might have to leave the country to make a good living.

[Howard]

I was telling Robin the other day that I will try to boost up her confidence just a bit by buying her a plastic queen's crown and a septor from a party web site.She told that she likes being called "queen"so there you go.

Lately,her and I have been ually involved with each other but nothing big time at the moment.And we've been seeing each other for about 7 months now. :)

[Howard]

Right...she wants to establish a future with someone that she can grown with. She doesn't want to date a bum that doesn't have a job nor any kind of income. Good partners are not money hungrey and they don't need to have that rich partner. A good partner is simply looking for a relationship where they can grow together comfortably and be happy as a couple.

There will be rough patches to a relationship/marriage like where a spouse may lose a job, but all the other partner wants is someone that won't sit around because they can't get a job that paid like the last one or it doesn't pay better. To me having an income is better than having no income. I would take any job out there to get some sort of income into the house to help out with bills.

It's like both partners have to have an income so that way you both can have a future.both have to have jobs in order to survive in this world.

[eightball61]

It's like both partners have to have an income so that way you both can have a future.both have to have jobs in order to survive in this world.


Right on...having an income gets you where you like to be but again won't by real love as we went over.

[Howard]

Right on...having an income gets you where you like to be but again won't by real love as we went over.


Robin wants the guy to also bring home the bacon as well as her so that way both of us can be able to afford more expensive stuff.She doesn't like it when the guy stays at home when the girl goes out to her job and brings home money.

[Howard]

women also want ! :D

[eightball61]

Robin wants the guy to also bring home the bacon as well as her so that way both of us can be able to afford more expensive stuff..


In todays world it normal for both partners to bring home an income but she can't be money hungry because it wont work out that way.

[Howard]

In todays world it normal for both partners to bring home an income but she can't be money hungry because it wont work out that way.


She just wants to live comfortably,have a nice job,nice house and nice boyfriend that'll treat her well continuing into her old age.

[eightball61]

She just wants to live comfortably,have a nice job,nice house and nice boyfriend that'll treat her well continuing into her old age.

Everyone wants that but life is not always fair because people can get fired and laid off. Shit happens as they say and its very true. Love will bring a couple together and income will bring a goal that they are working towards.

[Howard]

Everyone wants that but life is not always fair because people can get fired and laid off. Shit happens as they say and its very true. Love will bring a couple together and income will bring a goal that they are working towards.



that's so true 8Ball.Thanks.I worry for the both of us(Robin & I)

[eightball61]

You worry which is ok but you need to spend more time working towards a future goal rathering than sitting back worrying.

[Howard]

You worry which is ok but you need to spend more time working towards a future goal rathering than sitting back worrying.



I worry about being worried. :(
I'm worried that she might get fired from her job.She does medical billing in an office and she's been having trouble on the job and with her co-workers.If she were to get fired,she's back to square one again.She hasn't had much luck with her past jobs she had mentioned to me on the phone and as for me I'm doing the best I can and struggling to find my niche.Like,going to my program(Monday,Tuesday and Wednesday),getting into Supportive Employment soon and wanting to get off my SSI.(Social Security Income). :)

[eightball61]

As I stated its ok to worry about her and yourself. If she gets fired or laid off then she just needs to take the adult approach and move onto the next job. Shit does happen in this real world and there is no time to give up. If you give up then you are the one that will suffer because you never allowed yourself to move on and try again.

[radar]

[QUOTE=bdtraders]

My friends handed me an article today that was about how the majority of women out there perfer a guy with an attitude over one that treats them like a princess.
Basiclly nice guys finish last while jerks get ahead.
QUOTE]

First, nice avatar!

Second, I've read that the number one trait that women find attractive is confidence!

It may just be that all the guys who are jerks simply put on the airs that they are justified in being that way, hence a form of confidence...

Being confidently an a$$hole may be seen better than being a nice guy weakly!!!

-radar (a mostly jerk-ish type guy)

[Howard]

As I stated its ok to worry about her and yourself. If she gets fired or laid off then she just needs to take the adult approach and move onto the next job. Shit does happen in this real world and there is no time to give up. If you give up then you are the one that will suffer because you never allowed yourself to move on and try again.



I try not to suffer.I don't want to give up.I've worked so damn hard to be where I am now(almost 2 years) to be in this situation.I guess we both have to suffer in some sort of way.

[Howard]

I think more women are attracted to smart,y and guys with lots of confidence which I don't have much of at the moment. :(

[SALly]

You know-the more I think about this the more I realize I don't really know what I want...or I want all different things. Sometimes I want a guy to fall all over me and do things for me....then sometimes I want to be left alone and not bothered. I think that has got to be a big key to a relationship---trying to figure out which the person wants at the moment...do they want want to be fussed over, or left alone. Are they acting like they want to be left alone, but really want to be fussed over???!!!! Geez- no wonder relationships can be so complicated. I guess another big thing would have to be forgiving when they don't get it right!!!!! :eek:

[Howard]

women are a pain in my tushy! :D

[SALly]

Men can be quite the pain in my tushy too..... :D :p

[Howard]

Men can be quite the pain in my tushy too..... :D :p


like the saying goes:"you can't live with them,you can't live without them". :D

[bdtraders]

First, nice avatar!

Second, I've read that the number one trait that women find attractive is confidence!

It may just be that all the guys who are jerks simply put on the airs that they are justified in being that way, hence a form of confidence...

Being confidently an a$$hole may be seen better than being a nice guy weakly!!!

-radar (a mostly jerk-ish type guy)


First thanks about the avatar

Second- confidence is the number one thing, so where does one draw the line between confidence and arrogance and down right beiing an a$$hole.

[SALly]

First thanks about the avatar

Second- confidence is the number one thing, so where does one draw the line between confidence and arrogance and down right beiing an a$$hole.
I think that would be a matter of opinion and different depending on each woman.....

[eightball61]

Second- confidence is the number one thing, so where does one draw the line between confidence and arrogance and down right beiing an a$$hole.

I try to be a nice as I can. I hate being and asshole but sometimes thats what one has to do. I do agree with SALly though and it really all matters on opinions.

[SALly]

OMG- you "agree" with ME??!!! :eek:

[eightball61]

OMG- you "agree" with ME??!!! :eek:


I dooo :cool:

[SALly]

I dooo :cool:
I'll print and frame that so I always remember!!! :p

[eightball61]

I will too :D


Do you think wallet size frame will be big enough?

[SALly]

Heck no--- poster size!!! :D

[eightball61]

k...You got it ;)

[Howard]

you know what women want? They want to become "queen"of their throne.I'm deciding to buy Robin from this cheap party goods web site a queen's crown and a plastic septor to boost her confidence just a bit cause she's been telling me how depressed she's been lately with her job and all.So now,she can be the queen of her own castle. :D

[bdtraders]

all a women needs is a good deep $%^#ing.....

its a joke, relax women..lol

I think i know what all women want,

honesty, loyalty, a listener, a man thats confidant with himself, and a man that is a gentlman, yet still a bad boy. She wants that car door open for her but still wants him to protect her.

[Howard]

all a women needs is a good deep $%^#ing.....

its a joke, relax women..lol

I think i know what all women want,

honesty, loyalty, a listener, a man thats confidant with himself, and a man that is a gentlman, yet still a bad boy. She wants that car door open for her but still wants him to protect her.


I agree BD. :D

you know that song by Christina Agulera "What A Girl Wants"?

[eightball61]

Do you really know what they want?

The question should be "do they know what they want?"(it applies for males to)

I doubt there is a logical answer to this :confused:

[bdtraders]

lol no one will ever know what the opposite wants, hell im not even sure if i know what i want half the time, lol such is life.

[SALly]

lol no one will ever know what the opposite wants, hell im not even sure if i know what i want half the time, lol such is life.
My wants and needs seem to change by the minute....or wait...I think it changes by the second!!!

[eightball61]

what is you want SALly..............PLEASE tell me now before you forget what you need :p

[SALly]

what is you want SALly..............PLEASE tell me now before you forget what you need :p
I forget! :(

[eightball61]

Oh man............. :p

[Howard]

I never know what they want anymore.They're all a bunch of naggers,kvetchers & complainers. :D ;)

[Howard]

lol no one will ever know what the opposite wants, hell im not even sure if i know what i want half the time, lol such is life.



But,do you know what the same wants? :D

[bdtraders]

um No............. :confused:

[eightball61]

um No............. :confused:


True.....I can explain how a guy thinks somewhat but when it boils down to what they really want then I am clueless :confused: ....lol the real funny thing is I am a male and still don't even know the answer to my own question. As we see, the only thing we can do is guess with opinions and assumptions.

[Howard]

um No............. :confused:


us guys want ,beer,football,baseball,wrestling and other guy stuff. :D