boyfriend is a child..

[onesweetwhirled]

so my boyfriend and i have been dating since college (3 years), living together for almost 2. his parents gave him everything in college, money was a phone call away, he didnt have to work, meanwhile i had 2 jobs and worked my ass off for every cent i made. he spent all his money on coke and booze and called his mom for more on sunday.

anyway...i think the fact that hes had everything handed to him in life and never really grew up is starting to show now that were out of school and he still calls his mom whenever he has a problem. he never picks up after himself and i feel like his maid/2nd mom. he has older bros that are like 27 and still live @ home with the parents because they dont have to pay for anything. we were over there for easter yesterday and i cringed watching his mom give him work clothes she bought him and i had to wait around while he tried them on. then he tells me to go ask his mom to pack food for us. i do my own grocery shopping and dont need his moms food. his dependency on his parents and general immaturity are starting to wear on me and make me a little nauseous. im considering getting my own place because the "mamas boy" act is really starting to get old.

your thoughts? he thinks its perfectly normal that his mom does everything for him and he is still dependent on her at age 24. i think its just sad.

[eightball61]

if you think its that sad then leave him. you are putting yourself at risk because of his drug habits.

[smackie9]

What loser 24 year old guy wouldn't want to give up such an easy life? You see it, we see it.....time to move onto greener pastures honey.

[Rich]

Yup, leave him and go find a "man". Would you want this lazy, drug addicted guy as a father to your children? I'm guessing not.

Time to throw him back into the water and fish again for someone new.