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whoknws89
04-27-2010, 04:40 PM
Well i've been dating this girl for about a month now. The relationship must be going wrong if I feel like we need a break this early in our relationship. We argue constantly. We are both strong willed people, but I give in mostly because I don't want to fight. She tends to be mean a lot also. Ex. I asked her could she make me something to eat. We were at her apt and she has 3 other roommates so I don't want to just intrude on their kitchen. Her reply was "Don't you have arms and legs, get up and do it yourself." Now, if the roles would have been reversed I would have done it no questions asked. I feel she wants to be the leader in this relationship and make all the decisions. We can only have when she wants to because according to her its her ******. The relationship is mostly about what she wants. I do not want to break up with her because I like her a lot, but don't know what to do. Maybe a break would not be good this early, but maybe less time apart would help. I don't know. Any suggestions would be much appreciated.

smackie9
04-28-2010, 09:35 PM
No taking a break isn't good, but breaking up permanantly is. Just admit that you are not right for each other and move on. That is what dating is all about....kickin a few tires to see if it's right for you. This is obviouly not.

Rich
04-29-2010, 12:32 PM
She treats you like crap and you fight all of the time. So what exactly is it about this relationship and her that you like????

Break up.

amys
04-30-2010, 12:16 PM
I think you shouls break up. It sounds as though she doesn't treat you right at all and definitely has some sort of anger issue. Kick her to the kerb!

Amy

toughcall
05-08-2010, 10:28 PM
If someone can't be cool for a month, they're a loser! Sorry. If things are this bad in the whooing stage, what do you expect further down the line?