confused23
05-03-2010, 02:47 AM
My boyfriends and I have been together for a year and a half. I am blissfully happy with him and it has been the happiest time of my life. Unfortunately it is all coming to an end in July when he moves to new Zealand and then to china (2 years travel) he has invited me to new Zealand with him. This has left me completely torn, I am due to start my postgraduate degree in architecture in September, a course of study that I am not 100% certain about but im doing it because it feel like the ‘sensible’ thing to do. Obviously I want to follow my heart and move to new Zealand.This could potentially be done if I defer university entry till next year but it will involve massive financial costs for me. He is an amazing person who I know will take me on so many adventures. I don’t want to regret not going. I need the advice of someone older and wiser, whos experienced this before. Is it better to live a life without regret ? I am not a risk taker but my heart aches.