Please Help!!!!

[sweetchick]

Thanks for your guys advice

[eightball61]

You need to stop being so blind......... His words are leading you on and he clearly doesn't want a relationship. If he did want a relationship out of this then his approach would be more positive and you wouldn't be here posting like you are.

You need to read his signs and except the fact he doesn't want a relationship. It's hard when he tells you one thing and actually does another but please listen to me on this one. Right now, you are in a fantasy in trying to believe something that is just not there. You need to go back and rethink about everything that has happened and hopefully it may click.

All I am trying to do is save you from future hurt. It's your choice on what you want out of this.....Do you know what you want out of this? :confused:

[Rich]

If I read your post accurately, then I think you answered your own question.

He's acting differently because you dyed your hair a different color. He was turned on by your blond hair and is turned off by your red hair.

Like he said about the package coming in the mail. Your red hair is the bad package that came in the mail. He doesn't like it but had to accept it.

The quick off the top comment would be to say that if he's just turned on by how you look, then your relationship isn't very deep and it won't last.

To see if my theory is correct, dye your hair back to how it was and see how he reacts.

Rich