ual objectification

[ireia444]

my boyfriend and i have been together for close to a year now. we hooked up as just friends at first, but then we both realized that we had feelings for each other. things have been going well for the most part, until the last 3 months or so. lately i have been feeling more an more like im just someone for him to have with. i know its not true though. he has a much higher drive than me at the moment, and just wants it all the time. i dont know what to do. we have talked about it, he knows how i feel, and i know that he wants to have to feel closer to me, but i still have this horrible feeling. his solution was to stop masturbating/ asking for as often, and i thought that might work. but now in the morning he wakes up with a giant hard on and i feel horrible because it takes like 20 min to go away, and i can clearly see he is uncomfortable or even in pain sometimes. it is hurting him to think that i believe he only wants my body, but i dont know how else to feel. i feel like the only option is calling it quits. im sick of feeling like shit when it comes to be bed time and when i wake up. and im sick of hurting him too.
we do have our other issues as well, which i feel are playing a growing part in stressing me out and thus lowering my drive more. neither of us have a job or are able to find one in this shit economy, and im trying hard to get back into school and make my life a little better. he has initiative issues and im having to push him to look for work and think about a career or adult life. i really care about him but im getting so tired. i really feel like giving up here...
please help us! :confused:

[smackie9]

Morning wood is morning wood. It happens every morning for every guy in the world. It's because he needs to pee. It happens whether you are there of not. He's a little nugget of info for you.....in times of stress men want more, because it relieves stress. For women it's the opposite. That is what's happening to you guys. There are many things you can do to improve things and stir up your libido. Physical activities such as running, walking, working out, or playing a sport helps with stress and clears those cobwebs in your brain. Also you can get him to give you a full body massage for an hour. I've read in many articles that this will give you even better s if done right.