trissy
06-15-2010, 05:54 PM
I had a boyfriend for 13 months, and he ended up dumping me over the phone in October. I was fine with that, as I was thinking about breaking up with him if things didn't improve. However, after our break-up, I realized how much damage he had caused me in our relationship. He made me feel like what I was thinking and feeling did not matter. All he did was what he wanted to do; he was very selfish.
All this made me feel inferior to me after that.
My second boyfriend was a rebound relationship...not the best idea. To make it even worse, he used me mainly for and money. In retrospect, I realize he was not really in love with me and I was played.
The next two guys I became affiliated with led me on and made me believe they wanted relationships, when really they were just looking for a friends with benefits kind of thing, and I fell for their traps.
These three guys made me develop severe trust issues. Now I end up becoming very wary of every guy I've come across.
Finally, I just got a boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I thought I was going to be okay. He's a decent guy and everything and I really want to trust him and be able to confide in him. However, the past four guys I have been involved with make this very difficult. I gave him the gist of what I just gave you - not going into quite so much detail - and he says he's not mad and that I can trust him and tell him anything, but I'm still scared and I find it very difficult. What should I do?
All this made me feel inferior to me after that.
My second boyfriend was a rebound relationship...not the best idea. To make it even worse, he used me mainly for and money. In retrospect, I realize he was not really in love with me and I was played.
The next two guys I became affiliated with led me on and made me believe they wanted relationships, when really they were just looking for a friends with benefits kind of thing, and I fell for their traps.
These three guys made me develop severe trust issues. Now I end up becoming very wary of every guy I've come across.
Finally, I just got a boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I thought I was going to be okay. He's a decent guy and everything and I really want to trust him and be able to confide in him. However, the past four guys I have been involved with make this very difficult. I gave him the gist of what I just gave you - not going into quite so much detail - and he says he's not mad and that I can trust him and tell him anything, but I'm still scared and I find it very difficult. What should I do?