Jealous over my gf's bff

[Archalo]

First off i would like to start by saying that i am new to this site, so yeah.

I recently have been having some current issues with my girlfriend. We have basically been together a month now and we already started hitting negatives within our relationship. The main negative i have with the relationship is her best friend who is . I have no problems over him being homoual or anything of that matter, but my girlfriend is just so attached to him more than me.

The first few days into our relationship went unnoticed of any problems at all, but then came where her buddy started calling her a lot and wanted to hang out with her. First i thought it was a girl that was her best friend, but she then said her buddy was a guy - "her guy" or her "Jakey-poo". That started making me uncomfortable a bit, but i decided to let it go for awhile thinking it was alright.

Later on i decided to ask more about him from her, and she started telling me a lot. She said that she went skinny dipping with him in the local river at night, and that she always has sleep overs with him. There i started to get jealous and all mixed up with emotions. It's just been hard, she focuses on him a lot whenever he calls or sleeps over or anything like that.

I don't like the jealousy and emotions i get but i also want this relationship to work out. Is there any advice that someone can give me on how to deal with this or cope with it. Please and thank you so much!

[smackie9]

So if he was a girl would you still be jealous?

[Robot By Choice]

First off i would like to start by saying that i am new to this site, so yeah.

I recently have been having some current issues with my girlfriend. We have basically been together a month now and we already started hitting negatives within our relationship. The main negative i have with the relationship is her best friend who is . I have no problems over him being homoual or anything of that matter, but my girlfriend is just so attached to him more than me.

The first few days into our relationship went unnoticed of any problems at all, but then came where her buddy started calling her a lot and wanted to hang out with her. First i thought it was a girl that was her best friend, but she then said her buddy was a guy - "her guy" or her "Jakey-poo". That started making me uncomfortable a bit, but i decided to let it go for awhile thinking it was alright.

Later on i decided to ask more about him from her, and she started telling me a lot. She said that she went skinny dipping with him in the local river at night, and that she always has sleep overs with him. There i started to get jealous and all mixed up with emotions. It's just been hard, she focuses on him a lot whenever he calls or sleeps over or anything like that.

I don't like the jealousy and emotions i get but i also want this relationship to work out. Is there any advice that someone can give me on how to deal with this or cope with it. Please and thank you so much!



Relax, dude, he's . She'll NEVER cheat on you with him. NEVER.

NEVER.



NEVER.


One more time: NEVER.

There are things about him that she can relate to, that you can't, or don't want to, and that is why she spends time with him, and enjoys it.

But if she's your GF, you should talk to her about it. It's going to sound silly to her that's she's upset about this, but if you feel hurt by this, then let her know. Damnit, she's your GF, you should be able to tell her anything, right?

But really dude, if your girlfriend is spending time with a guy, and he's , you should be very happy about that. Because if he wasn't, then you'd have a real problem on your hands, bud.

[Robot By Choice]

And again, just to remind you: NEVER.