Girlfriends birthday. Any suggestions?

[sagg22]

For those who don't know I am in a threesome, just to clear this up from the beginning. Me (female), her and him. Happy, doing well.
It was just his birthday this last weekend and she and I made him a candle light, roses everywhere, full lobster and pasta dinner. It was great, romantic, very fun, very thoughtful.
Now this weekend is her birthday. I want to do something just as romantic and thoughtful, but different than what we did for him. He is not the romantic type so I doubt I will be getting much help there. Anyone have any ideas???
Sagg

[eightball61]

Check to to see what he may have planned.....You both should put your minds together and plan something out for her together which will make it that much bigger and better.

[Howard]

you could go out to a nice fancy restaurant and then maybe go out for some dessert.Enjoy yourselves. :)

[Diablo]

What sort of things does she like to do? An afternoon engaged in her favorite activity followed by a good meal in a restaurant comes to mind.

[Howard]

Or if it's a nice night you both can take a walk around.

[sagg22]

I have talked to him but he has no ideas. He is leaving it sort of up to me. Like I said, he's not that romantically thoughtful.
I was thinking of taking us to this really nice restaurant that is down overlooking the beach. Right at sunset would be best. Great food, great wine, great atmosphere and view. And then maybe taking a stroll down the beach and what not. Is that thoughtful enough? I want it special.
Sagg

[eightball61]

You idea sound really nice. You don't have to be to different. You can keep things simple but sweet like the plan you have. Again, try to get him into it so you both can do something nice and thoughtful. Dinner is always a nice idea...whats hard is keeping things planned afterwards but if its a nice night then take things to the beach. If its raining outside then have a backup plan for afterwards.

[Howard]

Have a good time Sagg. ;)