Confusing problem :C

[Katt]

I have found myself in an extremely confusing situation and would really appreciate some advice. I’m the kind of girl who is notorious for being perpetually single; I have never had a really serious boyfriend. I’m socially awkward and very shy, so it kinda came as a shock to me when I met this guy online about six months ago who I really liked. He was just a geeky and weird as I am and he was so sweet and thoughtful. The only problem was that he lives several states away. After weeks of talking about it he finally bought plane tickets to come out and stay with me for a weekend. Everything was going wonderfully until he bought the tickets, we were talking everyday sometimes for hours straight and for the first time ever I felt like I was really happy. But as soon as he bought the tickets and things were in motion he stopped talking to me almost at all, he stopped telling me he loved me. I didn’t know what to think, at first I was angry and then hurt, but all that faded as his visit neared.
He flew in last weekend and everything went pretty well. He met my entire family and all my friends and seemed to have had a good time. After he went home he hardly talks to me now. I don’t know what to think. Am I just over-analyzing this? I really love this guy, I think he’s amazing and I have never felt this way about anyone before but sometimes I get this horrible feeling that it’s all one sided and he doesn’t love me the way I love him. I want to tell him how I feel but I’m paralyzed with fear that he will shoot me down. I would be absolutely devastated. I guess my problem boils down to this, why is he pulling away from me? Should I tell him how I feel about him and if yes then how?

[smackie9]

First question. You didn't mention anything about his initial reaction to you. Did he run into your arms and smother you with passionate kisses? Did he tell you he loved you? Was he horribly sad when he had to leave? Did you guys make out? Did he just act like you were just friends? These are the details needed in order for me to give you the right answers.