Need an advice

[dekduf]

Me and my GF are living far apart for 3 months and we meet sometimes, but she is seperated from her ex and has a baby, i am in doubt as the ex visited her to support the baby sometimes during the day and due the fact i'm not there i struggles with that, i ask her about this recently and this ended as a fight as she said if i have accepted to be with her i have to deal with this matter as is her ex child too. She is 36 and me 35, she seems to take it not as a problem. We dont contact everyday, but lot of doubts are in my head for the moment as i am far away. Am i over reacting, how should i take this? Thanks to give me an advice.

[smackie9]

It's not like she's 18. She is a mature woman and wants to make sure the child will always has their father in their life. You better back off because you are just a BF and that child will always come first. If you can't handle it find someone that doesn't have kids.

[Kirstylou]

If she is still committing to you while she is far away this is a good thing. She sounds like she has enough on her plate at the moment with a boyfriend (you) and a baby, she's not going to want another man with complications on the scene.