deafgirl
07-29-2010, 06:43 AM
Well I been dating him for 2 1/2 years. I dont know what to do.
Whenever i messed up or wouldnt listen to him or wont do what he want even also. He always smack my face or punch me anywhere on my body and once in a while on my face. But I have been choke and all kind of things that i never thought that a boyfriend who i love would end up abusive to me. But i always have to accept whenever he want and i will end up doing it. if i dont than he will force me to have or hurt me to the point i end up having with him so he would stop choking me or punching me.
But i am scared of people find out cuz my friends did stand up to my boyfriend about bruises. and he still wont change and i know that now i cant have anyone find out at all. it is that bad enough to the point he start telling me that he want to kill me whenever he angry but he always end up saying sorry but he look so serious when he got angry.
he already start smacking me in public and i was so surprised that he would do it in public. Now I already found out my friends starting to dont like him and even threat to beat him up. I just dont want to make it worse to the point where he gonna hurt me alot more than before.
So I just wanted to know how can i help him to control his temper and stop forcing me to have . I dont want to hear about breaking up since i arent going to break up. All I am asking for help to control his temper and help him to be better boyfriend.
Whenever i messed up or wouldnt listen to him or wont do what he want even also. He always smack my face or punch me anywhere on my body and once in a while on my face. But I have been choke and all kind of things that i never thought that a boyfriend who i love would end up abusive to me. But i always have to accept whenever he want and i will end up doing it. if i dont than he will force me to have or hurt me to the point i end up having with him so he would stop choking me or punching me.
But i am scared of people find out cuz my friends did stand up to my boyfriend about bruises. and he still wont change and i know that now i cant have anyone find out at all. it is that bad enough to the point he start telling me that he want to kill me whenever he angry but he always end up saying sorry but he look so serious when he got angry.
he already start smacking me in public and i was so surprised that he would do it in public. Now I already found out my friends starting to dont like him and even threat to beat him up. I just dont want to make it worse to the point where he gonna hurt me alot more than before.
So I just wanted to know how can i help him to control his temper and stop forcing me to have . I dont want to hear about breaking up since i arent going to break up. All I am asking for help to control his temper and help him to be better boyfriend.