A complicated matter!

[MrCurious]

Well where to start this may get a bit confusing,
Well I have been seeing my girlfriend now for about almost three months I met her through her sister but we live a bit of distance away about 3 hours drive I have been friends with her sister about for round seven years when I got chatting to her this was online things just hit off really well but then things got a bit complicated I found out her sister had really liked me for a long time (has a boyfriend for eight years and three kids) and she started a few rumours that were not true trying to cause problems but now she's ok with it just needed some time for it to sink in and now she's a great help with it but anyways,

We have been doing really good we made a date for me to come down for a week to see each other and she booked time off work for me to do so but we wanted to see each other so much i come down early for a weekend and it was great I took her out where ever she wanted to go and i was the proper gentleman not long after she replied when I was back at home that it was a perfect weekend and the best she had ever had.

Now though I feel since then we have took a step back in the relationship she has been really busy with work and it is making her really tired then coming home and not been bothered as much to speak to me and is kind of distant she has had a very bad relationship before me and was not looking on getting into another for some time but things changed as we got talking she told me she just needs time to do her own thing to which I understand and I want her to I don't expect her to give up her life she has for me but now she is getting very depressed her boss has died she is going to loose her job it seems and she cant afford to run her home when it happens she is not the kind of person to open up at all and we spoke last night for a while things started off good she even told me she felt she had not been putting enough time into us and she wanted to make some time for me to come down then not long after BAM back to how it was not really speaking to me but also said it has nothing to do with me now next weekend is when i am supposed to be going down for the week but that may be cancelled as there is a new guy in her works to finish off the boss's job so she may need to be there as there will be allot to sort out over the next week while i'm down, This is starting to really affect me it hurts me to see her like this I do not know what to do with this? as she will only deal with it on herself
Any advice you could give would be a great help Thanks

[Diablo]

Not much you can do. She's indicated that the reason she hasn't put much into the relationship is work and you don't really have reason to doubt her on that, so hang loose and see how things go. You've only been with her for three months, so you haven't invested a lot in the relationship. Do not let her feel pressure from you. This is a difficult time for her;especially not knowing if her job is going to last. At an appropriate time, let her know that you'll be there for her and then just see how things go. You might get a little frustrated with the lack of time with her, but do not let that kill the deal if you feel strongly about her. The situation will change after a while. She'll either keep her job or have to find a new one. That should bring a change for the better.