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DarknessLight
08-14-2010, 03:01 PM
I need your advise, I have a hard time dealing with what I'm feeling inside.
I have a boyfriend we are together for 7 months already, he went abroad for 3 weeks I couldn't come with him because I don't have any breaks between semesters.
It's hard for me because I always miss him, I feel the need to see him and if I don't it hurts!
I thought everything is getting better (it's the second week now).
Yesterday I met up with my best friend and her New boyfriend and everything came back to me once again.

I hate this! I know it's wrong! I don't want to be depended on someone, I want to be happy even when I'm alone AND I want to control what I feel.
On the other hand if I won't feel the way I do then what is Love? Is it wrong to miss someone? Can I not miss him that much and then when he comes back to still feel the connection?
smackie9
08-17-2010, 09:54 PM
Not missing someone develops over time and also comes with age. Since you are young and the relationship is not past the honeymoon stage yet, it's tough to not have those feelings. When you have been with someone for a few years, the intensity wears off and it's not so bad. So just keep busy and reward yourself with shopping for nice things or a delicious dessert. Do things that makes you happy and before you know it he will be back in your arms.
DarknessLight
08-18-2010, 03:45 PM
Thanks for the advise I will let time do his job ((:

You said the intensity wears off, what do you feel when you far apart?
smackie9
08-19-2010, 05:30 PM
I just think about how he is doing for about a few seconds and go back to playing my game, or chat with my friends. I love him but I do enjoy my time when he is out of my hair. You won't understand this til you have been with someone for a long long time lol.
Kirstylou
08-27-2010, 08:01 PM
Peronally I have never found that I don't miss my parnter, I find myself missing my partner like crazy even when I'm at work and I've been with him for years!! It may wear off but if he's the one for u, then u will find it hard to not see him!
smackie9
08-28-2010, 06:26 PM
Peronally I have never found that I don't miss my parnter, I find myself missing my partner like crazy even when I'm at work and I've been with him for years!! It may wear off but if he's the one for u, then u will find it hard to not see him!

Is that like 20 years?