car0us3l
08-22-2010, 08:56 AM
Hi.
My girlfriend and I have been together for about two and half years. I met her when I was 21 and she was 18. When we first started dating, I feel like she was really young and had a lot of drama, and thats what caused us to really break up the first time.. but we got back together again. The second time we broke up I think we really were clashing and I decided to call it quits again, but we got back together. Shortly after, we moved in together. It was great for a while but we started to clash again and it ended, she moved out and lived on her own. I hadn't talked to her for months, but found out she had had with some guy randomly. My heart dropped, and I knew what I felt for her all along. I loved her. And I still love her. I visited her that night, and we stayed the night together.. and everything was good again. She moved back in and we were together. We have had no breakups since then, but a few close calls... I am 23 now and she will be 21 soon.
Lately things have just not been the same. We rarely have , she shys away from any kissing or slight intimacy, we argue alot, etc. And now I have to move because we are currently living with my parents and they are moving. She decided she did not want to move with me, and said it was because of all the arguing and all the stuff I have said to her that she took offensively. She also likes to go out alot and party and go to clubs, and usually when she is out doing that, I am at home worrying and playing games or something... she doesnt like the game playing. I knew something was wrong, so I asked her if there was someone else tonight. She told me a guy likes her, and she finds him attractive. But she wants us to go on a "break" because she thinks everything will be better. I am moving 40 minutes away from her in 2 weeks. We agreed not to see other people while we are on this break. Its basically a period of time where we won't worry about the relationship and use some freedom. I have never been so scared in my life. I love her so much, and I don't want to lose her. I am so mixed up inside right now and its eating me alive. What if she does want this other guy and decides that she doesnt want to commit to this break? What if she does hook up with other people... I just don't know what to do. I can't lose her.
My girlfriend and I have been together for about two and half years. I met her when I was 21 and she was 18. When we first started dating, I feel like she was really young and had a lot of drama, and thats what caused us to really break up the first time.. but we got back together again. The second time we broke up I think we really were clashing and I decided to call it quits again, but we got back together. Shortly after, we moved in together. It was great for a while but we started to clash again and it ended, she moved out and lived on her own. I hadn't talked to her for months, but found out she had had with some guy randomly. My heart dropped, and I knew what I felt for her all along. I loved her. And I still love her. I visited her that night, and we stayed the night together.. and everything was good again. She moved back in and we were together. We have had no breakups since then, but a few close calls... I am 23 now and she will be 21 soon.
Lately things have just not been the same. We rarely have , she shys away from any kissing or slight intimacy, we argue alot, etc. And now I have to move because we are currently living with my parents and they are moving. She decided she did not want to move with me, and said it was because of all the arguing and all the stuff I have said to her that she took offensively. She also likes to go out alot and party and go to clubs, and usually when she is out doing that, I am at home worrying and playing games or something... she doesnt like the game playing. I knew something was wrong, so I asked her if there was someone else tonight. She told me a guy likes her, and she finds him attractive. But she wants us to go on a "break" because she thinks everything will be better. I am moving 40 minutes away from her in 2 weeks. We agreed not to see other people while we are on this break. Its basically a period of time where we won't worry about the relationship and use some freedom. I have never been so scared in my life. I love her so much, and I don't want to lose her. I am so mixed up inside right now and its eating me alive. What if she does want this other guy and decides that she doesnt want to commit to this break? What if she does hook up with other people... I just don't know what to do. I can't lose her.